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Tag Archive | "Oral Sex"

Your Call: Does a Blowjob Still Count, Even If You “Finish” with Intercourse?

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Men Who Hate Receiving Blowjobs: Yes, Reader, They Exist

Friday, May 22, 2015

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Dear Em & Lo, I’m a guy and I hate getting blowjobs. Maybe it’s because I had a few too many bad teeth-to-johnson experiences or I’m just a little too sensitive down there, but when a girl starts kissing me all the way down, I grit my teeth and prepare for the worst. It’s finally [...]

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Deal Breaker or No Deal Breaker: Oral Sex

Thursday, April 23, 2015

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“Deal Breaker or No Deal Breaker” is a new series of polls we’ll be running at EMandLO.com. We want to know what our readers consider a deal breaker in a serious relationship, and what they could get past. A deal breaker could be anything from someone who doesn’t like doggy style… to someone who doesn’t [...]

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How to Go Down on a Man, According to Men

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the difference between an average blowjob and an excellent blowjob?” Straight Single Guy (Chris): I have had a handful of extraordinary blowjobs in my lifetime. Generally I say something to any talented giver, pointing out how noteworthy her [...]

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Your Call: What Positions Work for Big Belly, Small Penis?

Monday, January 26, 2015

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Pitch Perfect, The Mermaid Dance We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Husband Went Down On Another Woman

Thursday, January 8, 2015

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Showtime’s The Affair Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it¬†(18 and older only, please).¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: My husband spends a lot of [...]

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Comment of the Week: Please Don’t Go Down On Me. Seriously.

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

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photo via RestAssured Reader Henry wrote the following in response to our post, “Dear Em & Lo: I Hate Receiving Blowjobs.”¬†Sure, men who would rather get a root canal than a blowjob may be rarer than a unicorn who hates rainbows, but still: they’re out there. And for the men who feel this way, it’s [...]

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Help: My Inability to Orgasm Is Ruining My Relationship

Monday, December 1, 2014

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¬†photo via flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.¬† Dear Em & Lo, I’ve [...]

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The Real Reason Why Guys Love Blowjobs So Much

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What’s the big deal about blowjobs — seriously, what makes them so special? Gay Single Guy (Daniel): On the physical level, it’s simple: they feel fucking amazing. They provide physical sensations so desirable that a straight man would let [...]

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Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

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photo via flickr Last week we published reader Sara’s impassioned comment about blowjobs, and how they are not an inalienable right. This week, we are publishing two responses to her by two of our equally thoughtful, passionate, intelligent male readers, Derek and Steve. Can we just say how much we love that a debate like [...]

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