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Tag Archive | "Positions"

Comment of the Week: You Just Cracked Us Up!

Wednesday, March 4, 2015


We recently received a Facebook message that warmed the cockles of our hearts, and since we’re totally shameless when it comes to self-promotion, we thought we’d share it with you. Gerry, you made our month! Dear Em & Lo, I’m writing to tell you that I just finished laughing so hard, I’m pretty sure it [...]

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Your Call: What Positions Work for Big Belly, Small Penis?

Monday, January 26, 2015

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Pitch Perfect, The Mermaid Dance We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Love-Hate Relationship with Doggy-Style

Wednesday, July 24, 2013


photo via Flickr Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service!     Dear Em & Lo, I’ve always found “doggy style” sex to be naughty and hot visually. A lot of my fantasies include my boyfriend and I having sex in this position. However, when we actually try “from behind” tactics, [...]

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Confession: My Love-Hate Relationship with the 69 Position

Thursday, May 9, 2013


Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has this to say about the pros and cons of the 69 position… I will, with ease and without shame, say that 69 is a profoundly silly position. Sure, it sounds great upon first listen. We [...]

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The Reverse Coital Alignment Technique (or Reverse C.A.T.)

Wednesday, July 25, 2012


Image from our book “SEX: How to Do Everything” Yesterday we reviewed the Coital Alignment Technique, a sexual position that involves lots of body contact, slow and steady shifting, and a philosophical readjustment toward intercourse ‚ÄĒ all designed to increase a woman’s chances of orgasm via penile penetration. (Trust us, it’s sexier than that sounds.) [...]

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The Coital Alignment Technique (C.A.T.) – A Refresher Course

Tuesday, July 24, 2012


Image from our book “SEX: How to Do Everything” You’ve all heard of the Coital Alignment Technique. It was all the rage a decade or so ago. But have you ever actually tried it? Have you tried it again recently? It takes patience. It takes practice. And it goes against everything you’ve seen in porn. [...]

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Question of the Week: Where Do You Stand on the 69?

Thursday, March 15, 2012


photo via flickr What’s your opinion on the 69? Is it a win-win in the bedroom, the ultimate in quid-pro-quo? An intense, in-your-face (literally!) intimacy? Or is it distracting/boring/complicated/claustrophobic? Leave your response in the comments section below (feel free to share your age, gender, relationship status, etc., if it‚Äôs relevant to your answer).

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Wise Guys: Do Men Like Crazy Positions in Bed?

Tuesday, March 6, 2012


photo via flickr Advice from three of¬†EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Are most guys really into tackling crazy sexual positions (e.g. the wheelbarrow) or are most men completely happy with the standards (e.g. missionary, woman on top, etc)? If it’s the former, why?” To ask the guys your own question,¬†click here. Married [...]

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Confession: The Top 10 Reasons to Love the Missionary Position

Thursday, November 17, 2011


photo via Failblog.org One of our college contributors, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: Everytime I check out Cosmo, look at Men’s Health with¬†my boyfriend,¬†or go to the sex aisle at Barnes and Noble, I see hundreds of very creative (and sometimes gravity-defying) ways that I “should” be having sex. But [...]

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Your Call: What Do I Do When I Get on Top?

Friday, March 4, 2011


photo by sinabeet We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Hi Em and [...]

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