Dream Interpretation: Blonde on Blonde in a Futuristic Hotel

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Background: I had a dream in the preceding months where the zombie apocalypse started (dang “Walking Dead” before bedtime) and I ran into a HUGE futuristic hotel I’d never seen before. The hotel in the dream below is the same hotel. Also, I am in a relationship.

The dream: I entered the hotel, alone I believe, and met a young blonde girl (much like myself). We talked and walked, but all I could focus on was her face. It wasn’t painfully obvious she was a lesbian, so I listened and admired her, trying not to get to flirty (I was). When we finally got to my room, we were about to say goodbye, or I was going to kiss her. I was thinking, “I’ve got a girlfriend, but I like her a lot…” Then I woke up.

LauriIt’s not that uncommon to dream of a location that exists only in your dreams more than once. Typically, settings in dreams represent a certain “area” of your life. The hotel setting of your dream represents an area of your life that is temporary or that is in transition, since we stay in hotels for a temporary amount of time. Are you concerned your relationship may only be temporary? Or is it going through a transition right now?

The unknown gal in this dream could represent a desire for another relationship (if you aren’t jumping up and down over your current one). However, it is more likely that she represents a part of yourself (everything and everyone in your dream represents a part of you or a part of your life) because you did, in fact, mention that she was like you.

It is significant that she had blond hair. The blond hair suggests that you need to lighten up in your thoughts or in your words… or that you are in the process of lightening up. You are attracted to her in the dream because your inner self wants you to really like the idea of being lighter in your attitude or in your mind.

It’s also interesting that you were going to say goodbye to her in the dream. I think that is connected to the temporary element of this dream. I’m wondering if maybe things are going well and you do feel lighter emotionally, but worry that it won’t last. Whatever the case, keep this lighter, brighter side of you alive and well. Don’t say good ye. A lighter, positive attitude can work wonders in your life… and especially in your relationships!

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