Dream Interpretation: I Cheated with a Well-Endowed Bad Ass

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

Last night I dreamt that when I was on vacation it was cut short by a death in my family. So I went back for the funeral and then continued my trip. When I got back I met this very attractive artsy bad ass type. We hit it off and unclothed each other, revealing his long thick penis! And begin to have passionate intense sex, when interrupted by my current boyfriend of 2 years. My boyfriend stormed off and so did my “dream man.” I continued the dream upset, knowing I ruined my relationship, but still looking for the other guy. Please interpret, I don’t know what to think of this dream!

Lauri:  You have two interruptions in this dream: Your vacation being interrupted by a death, and then sex being interrupted by your boyfriend. What in your waking life was in progress or moving forward but had to come to a stop or suddenly changed? Look at your relationship first. Did you two have to take a break from each other for some reason? Or put the brakes on something within the relationship? That might be where the death comes in. The death is something that has ended or changed either in the relationship or in your own life or in your own behavior.

I believe the guy that you describe as a bad ass is some part of your own personality and his long, thick penis is your own male, assertive energy. Just as you undressed him and discovered that “part” of him in the dream, did you recently reveal a more “bad ass” and assertive part of yourself? Are you the one that “manned up” and put your foot down about something? It seems that your bad ass self has upset the apple cart and your boyfriend.

In real life, are you afraid your relationship has reached a point of no return? Did you pull back your assertiveness in waking life, just as the bad ass guy took off in the dream? The fact that you still yearned for Mr. Bad Ass is a good indication that you feel you need to continue to be bold, even though it may not sit well with others.


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