Dream Interpretation: My Husband Watches Me Go Down on a Woman

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I had a dream I was having oral sex with a woman I didn’t recognize. My husband was there watching. What does that mean?

Lauri: Typically, when the mouth is brought to attention in a dream… no matter where the mouth may be, you can usually connect it to the way you have been communicating in waking life. Oral sex is often about intimate conversation. Do you recall, around the time of this dream either having an intimate conversation with your husband or perhaps with someone else?

The unknown woman in your dream is a part of you (most everything in our dreams represents a part of the self unless you’re dreaming of your spouse, child or someone you deal with on a daily basis). Lesbian action in a dream — if you’re straight — is about connecting with and really appreciating your own feminine wiles and qualities. For example, lesbian dreams are particularly common in pregnant women’s dreams because being pregnant is the epitome of being female. At the time of this dream, were you really appreciating your curves or your creativity or your ability to nurture? Being that this may be connected to conversation, were you able to successfully negotiate or make a point by communicating in a gentle and understanding manner rather than being aggressive?

Unless hubby’s watching in the dream was creeping you out, it probably means he approves of you putting your feminine wiles to good use!

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