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How do I get my girlfriend to come out of her shell? I sometimes have to move her hands to the parts of my body I want her to touch. I think her last two long-terms love had the same MO with her in bed. She would lay there and they would do a bunch of stuff to her to turn her on and then have sex with little involvement from her….and guess what’s happening now??? I think the same thing with me. Nothing is better than an enthusiastic passionate lover….HELP!!!

— Sexually ACTIVE

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