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Dear Em & Lo,
I am a 23 year old woman and my libido has disappeared. Like completely. I have never been one to have one-night stands and stuff but my sex life with my fiancé was amazing before my libido exited.
Why is this happening to me? We have a great relationship, so I know it’s not a problem there, there is nothing wrong with my hormone levels according to a recent blood test…I don’t understand. My sex drive used to be so powerful and I felt sexy and formidable, but that fire has just completely gone.
My fiancé is very patient and understands that I still find him totally gorgeous, so I don’t see what the problem is. I don’t want this to escalate. Please help me!
— Girl (Not) on Fire
