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Blog Snog (07-10-09)

Totally disturbing vintage ad via TresSugar A weekly roundup of some of our favorite sex- and love-related posts from various blogs and websites: TresSugar rounds up some shockingly sexist (or just plain disturbing) vintage ads. Turns out making women feel bad about the way they smell down there is a timeless classic! The LemonDrop gals […]

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FAILblog Can Help Mend a Broken Heart

We were once fond of telling people who’ve been dumped to buy a box of red wine and watch some good mindless action movies. But we’ve now got a better idea: buy a box of rose (it is summer, after all) and spend a few hours scrolling through the archives of FAIL Blog. (If you […]

Advice
Top 6 Casual Sex Bloopers

photo by demi-brooke Actually, the term we prefer is “play d’oh!” (exclamation mark optional). A few of our favorites: Bleating “I love you” on a one-night stand, right as you climax. Crying right after you climax (especially common after ex sex). Accidentally drunk-dialing your boss’s cellphone instead of your ex’s — and tuning out during […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate: I Hate My Small Breasts!

Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here once a week. To ask her your own question, click here. Dr. Kate, I am almost to the point of desperation with the small size of my breasts. For years I have […]

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Not-So-Flat Stanley

photo via Hamburger Morgenpost At first glance, this news story about a German prostitute’s tombstone being deemed “too slutty” seemed like just another one of those “Oddly Enough” stories that every paper traffics in (“Drunken Tractor Driver Leads Police on Slow Chase” et al). Until we got to the part about how the tombstone in […]

Polls
Poll: Which Would You Rather Have on a Desert Island?

<a href=”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1768489/” mce_href=”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1768489/”>If you were stuck on a deserted island, which would you rather have as potential “romantic” company?</a><span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”>(<a href=”http://www.polldaddy.com” mce_href=”http://www.polldaddy.com”>poll</a>)</span> Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo: I Hate Receiving BJs

Dear Em & Lo, I’m a guy and I hate getting blowjobs. Maybe it’s because I had a few too many bad teeth-to-johnson experiences or I’m just a little too sensitive down there, but when a girl starts kissing me all the way down, I grit my teeth and prepare for the worst. It’s finally […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: A Dolphin Couple Swam Under My Front Lawn

photo by Zest-pk Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means (after the jump). This week, a reader asks Lauri: A friend says that the dream I had was sexual because dolphins are the only other animal, […]

Personal Essays
Casual Sex Confessions in 5 Seconds Flat

In their hook up issue (Jul 2-8, 2009), Time Out New York launched a new sex and dating section. One fun feature you can access online is called “One-Night-Stand Confessions” where New Yorkers reveal one thing they’ve always wanted to tell a past fling. This being the age of Twitter, these revelations aren’t eloquent personal […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What’s the Deal with Blue Balls?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “What do blue-balls feel like… is it really that painful, or that big a deal? Is it even a real physical phenomenon?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): Blue balls are the testicular equivalent of a migraine headache. They are very real and […]

News
Stop Funding for Abstinence-Only Programs Now!

feminist majority T Tomorrow, July 8th, the House Appropriations Committee’s subcommittee on Labor, Health and Human Services and Education (Labor HHS) will be considering funding for the fiscal year 2010. Email the Labor HHS Subcommittee and Call Chairman David Obey, (D-WI-7), at 202-225-3365 and tell them that failed abstinence-only sex education programs must not be […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: How Do I Find Out If My Co-Worker Digs Me?

photo by mtkopone Dear Em & Lo, I like a guy that I work with (I’m an office assistant and he’s a mechanic) but I’m not 100% sure that he likes me back. I don’t get many opportunities to talk to him privately at work as other people are quite often around, including his mother […]

Do It Tonight
Do It Tonight! Get Some Fiber in Your Diet

add a little psyllium husk powder to O.J. We guess this is probably more a “Do It This Morning!” kind of thing, since prunes go better with sunshine. But no matter what time of day you do it, adding fiber to your diet can improve your sex life. We shit you not. (Ba dum ching!) […]

Pop Culture
Books: The Other Side of Desire

The Other Side of Desire is in bookstores now We’ve read — or at least skimmed — hundreds of books about sex in our ten years in the biz, and our shelves are stacked with tomes on everything from gays in the military to the science of seduction. Some educate us, some make us laugh, […]

Pop Culture
Blog Snog (07-03-09)

penis party tray A weekly roundup of some of our favorite sex- and love-related posts from various blogs and websites: One Glamour reader and her penis-shaped chip-and-dip dish…at the airport. College Candy’s got a smart essay on the small-mindedness of having “a type.” Feministing questions whether marriage is really working like the NYTimes suggested. YourTango’s […]

Research
“Daily Sperm Liberation” May Increase Fertility

photo by gniliep The big sexual health news this week was that a guy can increase the quality of his sperm by having sex every day for a week, and thus improve his fertility; he might have fewer sperm on his team when he goes for the gold, but the ones he does have will […]