Intercourse
Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing as Too Much Sex?

photo by fhwrdh Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is there such a thing as too much sex for a guy? Or will men generally be up for it whenever it’s offered/available?” Gay Single Guy (Daniel): THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH SEX for a guy. […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: A Different Way to Do It

photo by Michael Schubart In response to our chart on reconceptualizing male and female genitalia, Prof V had this to add: [For] men and women who were looking for more than ‘insert tab A into slot B’, [I’ve] always told them to take time to learn about each other’s bodies. Identify certain touches/sensations/pressures they enjoy […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Can Men Spot Fake Orgasms?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do most guys think they can tell a faked orgasm from a real one? Do they even care? Are they just happy to be blissfully ignorant? Like they’d rather believe a faked orgasm than know she didn’t really have one? And if […]

Polls
Poll: How Much Sex Have You Had in a Day?

What’s the most number of times you have had partner sex in one 24-hour period? (Either with the same partner or with different partners.)(answers) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate: Is My BF Too Big for Intercourse?

Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every few weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I’ve started seeing this new guy who has a very wide, very long penis. The first time we […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Size Really Doesn’t Matter. Really.

Barb, on the post “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis”: I went from dating a very well endowed man to dating a, well, not so well endowed man. I was shocked at first too. He was without a doubt the smallest man I had ever dated. To my amazement, he was also the most […]

Polls
Men-Only Poll: How Long Should Intercourse Last?

MEN: How long do you think intercourse (actual penile penetration) should last, ideally? (Apologies to readers whose sexual repertoire doesn’t include this.)(online surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

Polls
Women-Only Poll: How Long Should Intercourse Last?

WOMEN: How long do you think intercourse (actual penile penetration) should last, ideally? (Apologies to readers whose sexual repertoire doesn’t include this.)(survey) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Do Men Fake Orgasms?

Director’s clapboard via Amazon.com Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer, quite diversely, the following: Do guys fake orgasms? Straight Single Guy (Colin): Of course! We probably don’t faux the Big O as much as women do, but every now and then the circumstances might call for us to fake. If […]

Polls
Ladies-Only Poll: Has Sex Ever Made You Cry?

WOMEN: Have you ever cried during or right after sex? (We’re just talking consensual sex here.)(poll) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

Polls
Men-Only Poll: Has Sex Ever Made You Cry?

MEN: Have you ever cried during or right after sex? (We’re just talking consensual sex here.)(opinion) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

Websites
The Snuggie Sutra

Years ago, we were part of the team that created Nerve.com’s Position of the Day. The challenge was coming up with the positions; the fun was coming up with the names: “The Quasimodo,” “The Wet Blanket,” the “I Can See My House from Here.” So we were really curious about the Snuggie Sutra, a website […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is Sex With a Condom Really All That Bad?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Okay, so how different is intercourse with a condom? What does it feel like? Do different kinds of condoms make a difference? Straight Married Guy (Fred): It’s different.  It’s not as good.  Think pancakes without the syrup.  Scratching an itch with the […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate: Sex with My Girlfriend Is a Tight Squeeze

Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here once a week. To ask her your own question, click here. Dr. Kate, During intercourse with my girlfriend it feels like her vagina is very tight…too tight! It can actually be painful […]