Question of the Week: When, If Ever, Is Nursing in Public Too In-Your-Face?

After a woman was recently asked to move to the changing rooms at a Texas Target to nurse her child, she and other breastfeeding advocates organized a national nurse-in at Target stores across the country last week on December 28th. A writer-friend of ours, Amy Keyishian, went to her local store and took a, shall we say, spirited picture of herself nursing her kid (above), which caused quite a, shall we say, stir. Her writer friend, Marjorie Ingall, jumped to her defense in what we would call a spot-on analysis of why so many people freak out whenever a boob gets whipped out in public to feed a baby. So, what do you think? Should nursing be a private thing between mother and child? Is public breastfeeding okay, so long as it’s not in-your-face (i.e. not at a restaurant without a boob-burka or, say, while pushing your kid in a Target cart)? Or do we as a society need to accept the fact that breasts aren’t just sexual objects to be ogled by men and all chill the fuck out?

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3 years 9 months ago

Seriously? This is such a classless way to make a ‘statement’. Breastfeeding is perfectly normal and healthy, but being an exhibitionist about is is not. It’s not all about you, the mother with the hungry kid…have some respect for the people around you. Not everyone wants to see your milk engorged breasts displayed in public. if a non-lactating woman did it, it would be called ‘indecent exposure’ and she’d be on her way to jail in handcuffs. Yes folks, there are laws in most places regarding brandishing bare breasts. Personally, this is a private thing that should be kept private.

3 years 10 months ago

Have you ever seen a woman breastfeeding? In those instances I have there wasn’t any milk to see and not a lot of milk too, because there was a baby’s head in the way.

3 years 10 months ago

I’m just going to say that I don’t want to watch liquid come from any orifice of the body, whether it be urine, spit, or, yes, even milk. My objection to public breast feeding has nothing to do with viewing breasts as a sexual object, rather there are some bodily functions that should be performed in private.

3 years 10 months ago

Whip em out, I say

3 years 10 months ago

The only time I believe it is inappropriate to feed your kid is in venues that do not allow eating such as a live concert. I was once at a concert with a classical Violinist when a two or three year old kid began screaming the mom decide her kid was hunger and tried to shove her nipple in his mouth but he kept screaming and she had her tit flinging around slapping the kid in the face.
Instead of removing herself and the kid to the lobby she continued to try and feed him at the seat. The establishment had clear rules about eating in the theater. So I guess I have a problem when Moms use breast feeding as some sort of license to disrupt the public and hide behind the milk delivery system. if your kid is crying during what is the most tender and beautiful piece of music please get up and take your boobies and the baby to the lobby.