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Tag Archive | "Cunnilingus"

Confession: My Love-Hate Relationship with the 69 Position

Thursday, May 9, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has this to say about the pros and cons of the 69 position… I will, with ease and without shame, say that 69 is a profoundly silly position. Sure, it sounds great upon first listen. We [...]

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Top 10 Ways to Make Oral Sex More Fun for Both Partners

Thursday, March 14, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has some words of wisdom to share about oral sex… Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the [...]

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Your Call: How Do You Give Your Partner Advice About Oral?

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  I  I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t [...]

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What’s a Nice Way to Give Directions in Bed?

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

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photo via flickr Hey readers, got your own question for us? Submit it here. We may not answer them all, but we read every one, and we care, we really do. Dear Em & Lo, I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t orgasm through sex.  We are a relatively new couple, and [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: How Do I Tell My BF He Sucks at Oral?

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I’m 21, he’s 28. He’s the only person to ever perform oral sex on me, so while I have no one to compare him too, I know that he is bad at oral sex. He pushes his entire face on [...]

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How to Close the Orgasm Gap

Thursday, July 28, 2011

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image from nDevilTV It’s not exactly rocket science to say that men orgasm more often than women when they have sex with each other. Now, if you had to guess, what do you think happens to this orgasm gap as a relationship progresses from casual hookup to repeated hookup to serious commitment? Yep, the orgasm [...]

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Your Call: Why Can’t I Climax from Oral?

Friday, March 11, 2011

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illustration via Foxtongue We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Your Call – How Can I Enjoy My Sex Life As Much As My Sex Toy?

Friday, October 1, 2010

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photo by ValtheKid We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Enjoy Receiving Oral More?

Thursday, September 2, 2010

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photo by Bogdan Suditu Dear Em & Lo. I’m a 48-year-old female and I can’t seem to achieve an orgasm during oral sex. It all seems too intense. However, I don’t have any problems when masturbating. I feel it is like… someone else scratching your feet… it tickles. If I do it myself, it doesn’t [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, My Boyfriend Doesn’t Care About My Orgasm

Friday, August 6, 2010

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illustration via Foxtongue Dear Em & Lo, I love my boyfriend very much, but he comes so early on that I’m left hanging. Receiving oral sex ahead of time would sure get me that orgasm, but he doesn’t even do that! I NEVER orgasm, because as long as he gets his, it seems to not [...]

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