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Tag Archive | "Cunnilingus"

Help: My Inability to Orgasm Is Ruining My Relationship

Monday, December 1, 2014

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¬†photo via flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.¬† Dear Em & Lo, I’ve [...]

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Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

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photo via flickr Last week we published reader Sara’s impassioned comment about blowjobs, and how they are not an inalienable right. This week, we are publishing two responses to her by two of our equally thoughtful, passionate, intelligent male readers, Derek and Steve. Can we just say how much we love that a debate like [...]

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Your Call: My Husband Won’t Give Me Oral

Monday, September 22, 2014

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Last Chance to Haiku Your Way to a Lelo ORA!

Thursday, January 30, 2014

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sponsored post *** THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED *** The deadline for our LELO Ora haiku contest is end of day Friday, January 31st — a deadline specially chosen so that we can get the winner’s toy out before V-Day! So here’s your last chance to wax lyrical about oral sex and win yourself or [...]

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Wax Lyrical About Oral, Win a LELO Ora!

Friday, January 24, 2014

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sponsored post *** THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED *** Earlier this week, we introduced you to the Ora, LELO’s brand new oral sex simulator. (And it’s actually elegant and sophisticated! Which isn’t at all surprising in a LELO toy — but it’s hugely surprising in an oral sex simulator.) Anyway, we have one of these [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Won’t Go Down on Me

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

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photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, When my boyfriend and I started seeing each other he made it clear he had a problem with performing oral sex and so I’ve never asked him to do it as, after all, I wouldn’t want to do something I wasn’t comfortable with or wouldn’t enjoy. However, after [...]

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Confession: My Love-Hate Relationship with the 69 Position

Thursday, May 9, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has this to say about the pros and cons of the 69 position… I will, with ease and without shame, say that 69 is a profoundly silly position. Sure, it sounds great upon first listen. We [...]

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Top 10 Ways to Make Oral Sex More Fun for Both Partners

Thursday, March 14, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has some words of wisdom to share about oral sex… Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the [...]

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Your Call: How Do You Give Your Partner Advice About Oral?

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

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We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.¬† I¬† I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t [...]

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What’s a Nice Way to Give Directions in Bed?

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

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photo via flickr Hey readers, got your own question for us? Submit it here. We may not answer them all, but we read every one, and we care, we really do. Dear Em & Lo, I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t orgasm through sex. ¬†We are a relatively new couple, and [...]

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