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How to Orgasm Without a Sex Toy

Friday, May 15, 2015

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photo via Flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 22-year-old woman who has only become sexually active over the last six months or so. I’m enjoying myself and being safe, but it’s starting to annoy me that I can’t have an orgasm without a vibrator. This really bothered my last boyfriend, which of course made [...]

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Comment: Why Size Matters…Until It Doesn’t

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

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Reader¬†MrAverage¬†said the following in response to our post¬†“Your Call: Do Bigger Penises Lead to Different Orgasms for Women?” Size matters and it doesn‚Äôt. Let me explain that apparent contradiction. My wife’s ex was an acquaintance of mine ‚Äď we played on the same soccer team. He was hung, everybody joked about it, although not huge [...]

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Comment of the Week: Who Causes Wet Dreams? Could It Be….Satan?!

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

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In response to a letter from a woman who orgasms in her sleep, we got a very interesting and creative analysis of what is actually going on from Amandah. It’s not sexual tension or the subconscious playing around with one of our strongest primal urges. Nope! Amandah schools us in the facts. (Ed. note: grammatical [...]

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5 Good Reasons Not to Fake Your Orgasm

Thursday, April 9, 2015

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by Amanda Chatel for YourTango You’re really not as good at it as you may think you are. It has long been one of those discussions that comes up both in and out of the bedroom: are you faking it or not? Faking an¬†orgasm, that is. Sadly there are actually those out there who end [...]

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What Does a Male Orgasm Feels Like? 4 Guys Explain.

Thursday, March 5, 2015

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by Melissa Noble for YourTango |¬†photo via Flickr Ever wondered what a male orgasm is like? Four men tell us ladies what it feels like to get off. So what does a¬†male orgasm¬†feel like? Do orgasms differ drastically between the sexes? On our search to find out what exactly goes on in a man’s head [...]

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Oh Come Let Us Adore Her G-Spot

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

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The LELO Ina The phrase “come hither motion” should be familiar to anyone who’s ever read anything about G-spot orgasms in women. It’s a very specific, very human touch (one or two fingers, usually), and it’s the key to stimulating a woman’s G-spot. And, as you might have discovered to your frustration, it’s not something [...]

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Comment of the Week: DTMFA!

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

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Reader Inness channeled her inner Dan Savage this week (DTMFA — look it up) with a heartfelt response to the post, “Help: My Inability to Orgasm Is Ruining My Relationship.”¬†Now what we want to know is: How can we ensure that our snappy acronyms make it into the Urban Dictionary? DTMFA. This guy is shaming [...]

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Help: My Inability to Orgasm Is Ruining My Relationship

Monday, December 1, 2014

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¬†photo via flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.¬† Dear Em & Lo, I’ve [...]

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4 Ways to Tell a Guy You’ve Been Faking

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

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Are you a liar, liar, whose pants, unfortunately, are not on fire at all? If you’ve been faking orgasms with your boyfriend or husband, you need to fess up — after all, the only way to get orgasms is to be honest about what does and doesn’t work for you. You know all this, right? [...]

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Confession: A Cab Driver Found My G-Spot & Spoiled Me for All Boyfriends

Thursday, November 6, 2014

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by Dori Hartley for YourTango  |  photo via flickr The year was 1985. I was walking on Third Avenue in New York City, probably going to the store for no good reason. It was a gorgeous day. On the corner, a cab stopped at the light. The car was free and the driver smiled at [...]

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