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Tag Archive | "Penises"

Comment of the Week: REAL Men Can Handle Male Nudity

Thursday, July 26, 2012


JamesS said the following in response to our post “Wise Guys: Why Do Straight Men Have Such a Problem with Male Nudity?” I’m a straight man and I don’t have a problem with male nudity. Provided the context is right, but that applies to female nudity as well. “Women put up with female nudity in [...]

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5 Ways to Make Sex with the Well-Endowed More Comfortable

Wednesday, July 25, 2012


photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, I have recently found that mythical man that every woman wants and movies portray. He’s financially stable, no ex drama, gorgeous (holy crap is he!), very sexy, and very tall (approx 6′ 3″-4″). The latter part of his good qualities is what’s the issue — he’s TALL. Meaning [...]

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Dream Interpretation: I Have a Big Penis, But in Real Life I’m a Woman

Tuesday, July 17, 2012


photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Howdy. When I have a rare wet [...]

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German Court Rules Circumcision a “Bodily Harm”

Monday, July 2, 2012


photo via flickr This week a court in Germany ruled that circumcising boys for religious reasons is “bodily harm.” The ruling came as a result of a court case about medical complications following the circumcision of a four-year-old boy. The doctor was acquitted, but apparently the court felt like stirring up a shit-storm anyway.  The [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: On Average, How Often Do BJs Occur in Relationships?

Wednesday, May 9, 2012


photo by Public Domain Photos Dear Em & Lo, What is the average number of BJ’s a guy in a relationship receives? (FYI: I’m a straight guy.) – Joe Blow Dear Joe, The actual average, even the more accurate median number (if they were somehow knowable, which they’re not) would be totally misleading, because the [...]

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Comment of the Week: Life Is Not Porn

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

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photo via Flickr We feel privileged and proud to have the most reasonable readers of any sex-related site out there: Well, let’s say for the sake of argument, that [a woman would] prefer [her partner] had a bigger penis. Is that a dealbreaker? Is it worth throwing an otherwise good marriage away over? I would [...]

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Your Call: Why Did My Wife Tell a Mean Joke About My Penis?

Wednesday, April 4, 2012


photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Hello, I’m a man in my early 50′s. [...]

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Dear Dr. Joe: Why Don’t I Stand at Attention Anymore?

Thursday, March 29, 2012


photo via flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, tackles questions about male sexuality here on EMandLO.com. To ask Dr. Joe your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, My erection isn’t at as high an angle as it once was (it’s a little droopier). Is there anything I can do [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s the Deal with Men and Their Penises?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do men have such an intense relationship with their penis?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Married Straight Guy (Irad Eyal of Sexdegrees.net): I don’t even understand this question. It’s like a cruel koan that [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s the Appeal of the Money Shot?

Tuesday, January 17, 2012


photo of Old Faithful by Chuck Martin Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the appeal of the “money shot?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos of The White Swallow): For men, the orgasm is the raison d’ĂŞtre of sexual activity, so the money shot—or facial, [...]

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