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Tag Archive | "Penises"

German Court Rules Circumcision a “Bodily Harm”

Monday, July 2, 2012


photo via flickr This week a court in Germany ruled that circumcising boys for religious reasons is “bodily harm.” The ruling came as a result of a court case about medical complications following the circumcision of a four-year-old boy. The doctor was acquitted, but apparently the court felt like stirring up a shit-storm anyway.  The [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: On Average, How Often Do BJs Occur in Relationships?

Wednesday, May 9, 2012


photo by Public Domain Photos Dear Em & Lo, What is the average number of BJ’s a guy in a relationship receives? (FYI: I’m a straight guy.) – Joe Blow Dear Joe, The actual average, even the more accurate median number (if they were somehow knowable, which they’re not) would be totally misleading, because the [...]

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Comment of the Week: Life Is Not Porn

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

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photo via Flickr We feel privileged and proud to have the most reasonable readers of any sex-related site out there: Well, let’s say for the sake of argument, that [a woman would] prefer [her partner] had a bigger penis. Is that a dealbreaker? Is it worth throwing an otherwise good marriage away over? I would [...]

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Your Call: Why Did My Wife Tell a Mean Joke About My Penis?

Wednesday, April 4, 2012


photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Hello, I’m a man in my early 50′s. [...]

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Dear Dr. Joe: Why Don’t I Stand at Attention Anymore?

Thursday, March 29, 2012


photo via flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, tackles questions about male sexuality here on EMandLO.com. To ask Dr. Joe your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, My erection isn’t at as high an angle as it once was (it’s a little droopier). Is there anything I can do [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s the Deal with Men and Their Penises?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do men have such an intense relationship with their penis?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Married Straight Guy (Irad Eyal of Sexdegrees.net): I don’t even understand this question. It’s like a cruel koan that [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s the Appeal of the Money Shot?

Tuesday, January 17, 2012


photo of Old Faithful by Chuck Martin Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the appeal of the “money shot?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos of The White Swallow): For men, the orgasm is the raison d’ĂŞtre of sexual activity, so the money shot—or facial, [...]

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Dream Interpretation: I Had Sex with a Celebrity and Was Left with His Penis

Monday, October 17, 2011


John Wayne Bobbitt Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: I recently had a dream that I [...]

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Dear Dr. Joe, Can You Break Your Penis During Sex?

Wednesday, September 21, 2011


photo via Flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, tackles questions about male sexuality here on EMandLO.com. To ask Dr. Joe your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, I’ve heard a penis can be broken during sex. How does it happen and what does it entail? And is it then [...]

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Confession: A Taste of One’s Own

Thursday, September 1, 2011


Max, one of our Wise Guys, has a confession to make: Ladies, face it: After a blow job, your average man would like you to swallow his seed, plain and simple. Whether that’s because of pride, practicality or a penchant for raunchiness may vary from guy to guy, but a lover’s choice of spitting over [...]

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