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Tag Archive | "Relationships"

What It Means When a Man Won’t Cuddle or Hold Hands

Tuesday, October 21, 2014


photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If the guy I’ve started dating recently isn’t into cuddling or hand-holding, is that automatically a sign that he’s just not that into me, or are some guys just not into private or public displays of affection, no matter [...]

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Your Call: Should She Stay or Should She Go?

Thursday, October 16, 2014


photo via Flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. We seem to be getting a lot of bad boyfriend letters lately — maybe these women just need to hear [...]

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Confession: Binge-Watching Saved My Marriage!

Friday, October 3, 2014


by YourTango ¬†| ¬†photo via flickr It didn’t matter what we were binge-watching; it just mattered that we were binge-watching together. I sat at my desk waiting for the clock to tick just close enough to 5:00 p.m. so that I could duck out early from work. My man was waiting for me at home, [...]

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Comment of the Week: Communicate or Cut Him Loose!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014


photo via Flickr This week, ¬†our favorite comment came from TK in response to the “Your Call: The Relationship Is Great, the Sex Not So Much.” We love it when our readers deliver tough love so eloquently!: Most people who write in to advice columnists “know” the answer already. You may love this guy to [...]

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Comment of the Week: An Easy Trick to Avoid Ruining Your Relationship Forever

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

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photo via flickr One reader emailed us their best relationship advice, not in response to a specific post, but just ’cause. So we wanted to share: Me and my girl broke up after 8 years together. She was wonderful and I was a fool. I did everything wrong. So my advice is: ¬†if you’re thinking [...]

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Comment of the Week: Give Your Spouse More Credit

Thursday, September 4, 2014


photo via Flickr When a reader asked¬†”Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker?“, Henry’s response¬†concisely showed how having a better attitude — i.e. being more generous, looking at things from a more positive perspective — can make all the difference in a relationship:¬† I’ve been married 14 years. I’ve always thought my non-college educated woman a [...]

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Comment(s) of the Week: Be Smart About Respect

Wednesday, August 6, 2014


It’s a tie between two responses to our Your Call post¬†Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker?¬†– both of which are great advice for any relationship. First, Dannie said:¬† This is a question that ultimately only you can answer, because only you know your priorities. ¬†Is intelligence the most important thing to you? ¬†On the flip [...]

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Your Call: Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker?

Monday, August 4, 2014


photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Why Do Men Masturbate When They’re Having Regular Sex?

Wednesday, June 18, 2014


photo via flickr Wise Guys is a regular column offering advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Every guy has a regular masturbation frequency (RMF) that is more or less unchangeable [...]

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News: Men Buy More Sex Toys Before Big Sporting Events

Sunday, June 15, 2014


This just in: men account for FOUR OF EVERY FIVE sex toy transactions at LELO.com in the week before a big sporting event. This is a fact that LELO can prove. On any typical day at LELO.com, 50% of transactions are made by men, and 50% by women. If you’re surprised by that figure, don’t [...]

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