9/16/11
Your Call: Can She Keep Her Boobs Covered Up During Sex?

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.

I hate my boobs. I’m really self-conscious about them. So I really like keeping a bra on during sex. How much of a bummer is that for guys? And do you think it’s at all possible to find a guy who’d be okay with me keeping that part of my bod covered up during sex a majority of the time?

— Breast Intentions

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13 Comments on "Your Call: Can She Keep Her Boobs Covered Up During Sex?"

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phip
phip
2 years 5 months ago

Men like boobs of all shapes and sizes etc, it is just a fact. Hopefully you were careful and pick a man who cares, and when he looks into your eyes, he sees your insecurity and loves you for caring what he feels about you, and then when you look into his eyes, you love him for caring about you the person and not the acces ories you happen to own through life. No matter how you look, ultimately it will be your soul and personality that will forever obsess a partner. Love yourself and others will too.

kyle
kyle
3 years 1 month ago

Compliments should have never been called “sexual” socalled pestering.

Jessica
Jessica
3 years 7 months ago
My sexy husband knows that whenever he buys me some of Anita’s and Kutchie’s delicious key lime pie that I will do any sexual favors that he is in the mood for that night. He knows that the key lime pies really turn me on to no end. They really get my juices flowing and I am just puttee in his arms. I love him so very much, he is my everything, he is my life. We do sexual things that would make a sailor blush. So wonderful that I can not tell you them here. Letting my Boobs bounce… Read more »
Kev
Kev
4 years 5 months ago
Keeping a piece or two of clothing on can increase the sensations and should not be seen as a barrier to intimacy. It depends on the mood. We all enjoy bodice ripping sex but sometimes keeping a little bit hidden for a while can give a bit of time to get comfortable, and then increase the arousal and the pleasure once the underwear comes off. For example, touching and feeling the breasts through the lace and satin of a bra can feel good and send signals of pleasure through the body, and an attractive bra is a sight to behold… Read more »
Kat
Kat
4 years 7 months ago
I was self conscious about my breasts for sometime as I had an open-heart surgery when I was young which also means I have a scar. However, why should we get in the way of our own enjoyable experience? Guys are more impressed with the way you commit to the deed which leaves them wanting more. I have never been turned down once because of my scar or not wanted to pleasure my breasts and early on, I had decided should I come across an idiot like that, he will go in the scrap pile, not knowing what he has… Read more »
Bill
4 years 7 months ago

As a man I can tell you that breasts are nice but, I dont need to have them during sex Im more into pussy, ass and oral sex. I a women want me to play with them I will, I have had women with breast from A-DD and none turn me on more or less. I think the way a women uses her body is more sexy then her breasts

Kev
Kev
4 years 9 months ago
Mmm… Us men love boobs. But we also love sexy bras as well. And the right guy, when you find him, will love all of you. People do get hung up about their bodies, but if you are in love with someone, does it really matter. But you do need to build your confidence. Firstly, before bed one night put some music on, turn the heating up and have a good look at yourself in the mirror in your undies. Look at the woman that you see. Lots of men will look at you, and think you are gorgeous, attractive… Read more »
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