Dream Interpretation
I Keep Dreaming About Going to an Orgy

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I keep having these dreams that include sex, my best friend, her man, my man, and me. I’ve also had a similar dream […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Eco Seduction, Bucket Lists, and How to Block a C*ckblocker

Good Clean Love is one of our favorite earth-friendly lube ranges A Sexis article — part of their Green Project — shares some tips on eco-friendly ways to enhance the mood. And yes, you know exactly what kind of mood we’re talking about. Okay, we know this YourTango “Push Their Buttons” app is a vehicle […]

Pop Culture
And Now for Something Completely Un-Sex-Related

Ralph Helmick’s “Disorders of Magnitude” Lo here, taking a break from the sex writing for just a day to talk about art. (Hey, everyone needs a vacation!) Anyway, as you know, we regularly write for the Sundance Channel’s blog SUNfiltered. A fellow blogger over there tipped us off to this cool wall installation made from […]

Pop Culture
Em & Lo's 1st Annual Hotscars

photo by miss karen Most Disappointing Sex Scene: The Na’vi love scene in “Avatar.” Um, how could their tails NOT mesh? We’re waiting for the unrated version on Blu-Ray and it better deliver. Couple with Least Chemistry: Meryl Streep and Steve Martin in “It’s Complicated” Best Love-Conquers-All Message: “District 9” Worst Treatment of Genitalia: “Antichrist” […]

TV
Confessions of a "Millionaire Matchmaker" Millionaire

One of our Wise Guys, Tyler Barnett, recently went on Bravo’s reality show, “The Millionaire Matchmaker” (his episode re-airs next Tuesday, March 16th at 5pm — set your TiVos; you can watch a clip above). So we just had to give him the third degree: Why, oh why, would you ever go on this show? […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Vanessa: What STDs Should I Get Tested For?

STD toys from Giant Microbes Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I’m a woman in her early ‘30s with a pretty active sex […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: When HE Puts Out Too Soon

photo by e.esders Just to prove that it’s not only women who fall hard on a first date, get swept up by their libido, and never hear from said date again… I met this beautiful gal on a dating website. We had a second date, had a great time, spent the entire day together. At […]

Personal Essays
Confession: I Don't Do Drunken Hookups

photo by nayrb7 A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I woke up one morning after an evening chugging most of a jug of $3 wine and several cups of that uniquely collegiate concoction “jungle juice.” Head pounding, eyes squinting, and stomach lurching, I realized there […]

News
Who's Going to Tell South Dakota It's 2010?

photo by daveynin We were going to write about Robert Pattinson’s joke misfire in which he told Details magazine that he’s “allergic to vagina” (we read his “explanation” and we still don’t get it). But then our friends at Planned Parenthood sent us a link to this awesome Washington Post profile of PP’s Dr. Carol Ball, who travels 200 […]

Your Call
How Long Can a Virgin Make a Guy Wait?

Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 26-year-old virgin and, while I’m not waiting for marriage, I am waiting for the right guy. You know, that guy that won’t pressure me for sex because it’s the 3rd date or break up with me after 3 months because I’m not ready. And yes, both of those situations […]

Pop Culture
France Finally Shocked By Something: Anti-Smoking Ad

The slogan for the above anti-smoking ad currently running in France reads “Smoking means being a slave to tobacco.” Despite promoting a universally recognized good cause — getting kids to stop smoking — the ad has managed to piss off pretty much everyone. And this is in France, where the words “sex” and “scandal” (or, […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Me, My Ex and a Baby

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: A few years ago, I briefly dated this guy (let’s call him X), though we never had sex. We parted mutually after only […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Breakup Prep, Internet Oversharing & Ex Trash-Talk

Lemondrop outlines how to brace for the impact of a breakup. College Candy reacts to the Princeton student newspaper op-ed that suggested women who were sexually assaulted while drunk were in part responsible. YourTango explains how NOT to sound bitter and petty when talking about an ex (they’re talking to you, Kate Gosselin). The TresSugar […]

News
New Jersey vs. California: Which State Is Worse for Sex?

photo via MTV.com Remember when former Miss California Carrie Prejean got famous for (a) getting pageant-funded breast implants and (b) saying “I believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman, no offense to anybody out there”? Well, suddenly No-Offense Prejean is looking like the picture of tolerance (after all, she did also […]

How To
5 Things You Should Know About the PS-Spot

photo by liz_noise Unless you’ve been living in a cave, you know exactly what the G-spot is, and you probably know where it is, too — an area on the front wall of the vagina a few inches in that, when stimulated, can result in extreme pleasure, explosive orgasms, and even female ejaculation…well, at least […]

Polls
Poll: Do You Use Vibes with Your Partner?

What’s your opinion on using battery-operated sex toys with a partner?online surveys Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.