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Comment of the Week: You Guys Are Trashy and Vulgar!

photo by by Adam Bielawski A male reader emailed us the following note in response to our post, “Top 10 Breakup Songs Taylor Swift SHOULD Write.” Oh no! We upset the Swifties! We feel like Michael J. Fox. Except this is worse because we consider ourselves true Swifties at heart. Oh well, in our imagination, Taylor […]

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Comment of the Week: Small Sexy Bits Are Lovable

photo via Flickr Christy, commenting on our most popular post, “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me“: I personally am very thin and not very curvy. Since early in my life, I have experienced the cruelty of people judging someone based on physique. Mine being more obvious and public than the […]

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Comment of the Week: How a Woman Can Enjoy Sex Like a Man

Reader Michael H. said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: How Can a Woman Enjoy Lots of Sex Without Shame?” This is coming from this male’s perspective, take it as you may… You are absolutely correct that society has a double standard. It should be an obsolete puritanical belief system, however, it […]

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Comment of the Week: How to Have Sex with a Small Penis

photo via Flickr Last week Carl commented on our most popular post ever, “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me.” If only everyone could be this smart, well-adjusted and cool about sex, the world would be a better place: Wow, 572 comments over 3 1/2 years, and still people finding […]

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Size Matters… The Size of Your Vocabulary, That Is

photo via flickr In response to a less than eloquent (though well intentioned) comment in the post “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis,” reader Dallas said the following. Thank you, Dallas, for so succinctly reminding readers everywhere that a large vocabulary can take you places a large penis never will. And we don’t just […]

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Comment of the Week: The Push and Pull of Love

photo via Flickr Reader Lily had this to say in response to “Your Call: Can a Relationship Work If One Person Is More Into It?”: Relationships seem to have a subtle but brilliant push/pull mechanism that make them ‘work’ in the beginning. Then after a while you have to consciously chip in in order to keep […]

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Comment of the Week: I Learned to Love My Girlfriend’s Fart Jokes

Reader Johnny had this to say in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Can Men Handle the Fact of Female Bodily Functions?” Farting in front of me? My lady has farted ON me. I started it. She returned fire. I was aghast. How COULD she? Jesus CHRIST! Frankly, I have always been emphatically opposed to […]

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Comment of the Week: If He’s Being Secretive, He’s a Spy or a Player

Reader Jenna said the following in response to the post “Your Call: How Can She Tell If a Guy Is Playing Games?” Men who are serious about relationships usually have a certain amount of transparency. They let you meet friends or family without it being a big production. They share details of their day or […]

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Comment of the Week: Love a Man As Is

This comment from Mactek in response to the post “Wise Guys: If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?” recalls our favorite comment from two weeks ago titled “Love a Woman As Is.” Hey, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander! I want a woman who loves, appreciates, adores, […]

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Comment of the Week: Two Solutions to the (Really) Wet Spot

photo via flickr Two readers this week offered solutions to the really wet spot that can result from female ejaculation, in response to our post “Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?” First, reader Ace Card from the blog The Good Sex Life suggests this: My favorite squirting aid is our “Liberator Throe […]

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Comment of the Week: Love a Woman As Is

Egon Schiele, Reclining Female Nude with Violet Stockings, 1910 Pierre, in response to the post “10 Reasons Your ‘Ugly Vagina’ Is Normal and Gorgeous”: Vulvas, just like breasts, just look their best when they are NATURAL. I really hate the tendency nowadays for the shaved look and the trimmed lips, there’s nothing left! I agree with […]

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Comment of the Week: Love Can’t Conquer Kinky Differences

Reader Xena said the following in response to our post “He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla — Is the Relationship Doomed?” The LESS likely scenario is that the vanilla partner will have bsdm needs awoken in them with time. But I would not bet on that scenario. The other very important thing to note is that even […]

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Comment of the Week: I Finally Made My Vibrator Obsolete!

photo via Flickr We love a success story. Here’s Anne, in response to “10 Steps to Orgasming Without a Vibrator”: I have been going electric since I discovered any sort of sex in my teens. You would be surprised how many household items vibrate. My first orgasm was with vibration and I had never had […]

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Comment of the Week: Why First-Date Sex Isn’t a Relationship Killer

Reader Lisa said the following in response to the (oldie-but-goodie) post “Wise Guys: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship Killer?” When you go out with a guy, he’s already decided what he wants out of that relationship, whether it be a LTR or a one night stand. You just have to learn how […]

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Comment of the Week: How to Get the Sex You Want

photo via Flickr For the second week in a row, our favorite comment has been in response to the post, “Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm” —  this week reader Tess has some similarly spot on advice: …if this pattern [of unsatisfying sex] is all that [your husband] knows, then you can’t expect him […]

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Training Your Partner in Bed Is Just Like Training a Puppy

photo via flickr Reader Hannah said the following in response to the post, “Your Call My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm”: If there was no child involved, I’d say DUMP HIM… I mean that is bad. Very seriously bad. And it’s not as if you haven’t tried to tell him. Most […]