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LELO’s Smart Wands Win the 2013 Red Dot Design Award!

Medium Smart Wand in plum by LELO Pop the champagne! Our friends over at LELO have just gotten word that their Smart Wands Cordless Body Massagers have been awarded the Red Dot Design Award for Excellence in Product Design—their second Red Dot in as many years, with their couples’ massager Tiani bringing home last year’s honor. Regarded as […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: How Do I Re-Enter the Dating Pool?

photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to […]

Horoscopes
Your Weekly Horoscopes: 03-18-13

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.) aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Damn, Aries, you’re on fire. And when we say it, it’s not like your grandmother saying […]

Pop Culture
Performance Art, Lost Love & Facebook

Earlier this week, we stumbled upon Zen Garage’s post about a 2010 performance art piece by Marina Abramovic at her MoMa retrospective, in which she shared a minute of silence with each stranger who sat in front of her. Back in the 70s, she had an intense love affair with a fellow artist by the name of […]

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Blog Snog: Where Did All the Condoms Go on “Girls”?

HuffPo Women: Where did all the condoms go on “Girls”? Nerve: 10 incredibly weird things the world likes in its porn. The Frisky: One’s first time using a vibrating love ring. YourTango: CONTEST: What’s the best marriage advice you’ve ever received? How About We: New survey says the ideal age gap in a relationship is… TresSugar: Fifty Shades author […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Blonde on Blonde in a Futuristic Hotel

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: Background: I had a dream in the preceding months where the zombie apocalypse started […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: How to Handle a Husband Who Doesn’t Want Sex

image via Wiki Media We had a question from one of our readers asking about why her husband isn’t interested in sex. We had lots of responses from seeing if she could buy testosterone from a legit source to increase his sex drive, suggesting going to counselling, and even some people saying just get someone […]

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo: I’m a College Freshman Who’s Never Been Kissed

  Hi Em & Lo, So I’m a freshman in college and I have never dated before or even been kissed. Sometimes I really feel like I’m missing out. I’m pretty friendly, but is it bad that I still haven’t had a relationship yet? What should I do? Help! Sincerely, Never Been Kissed Dear N.B.K., […]

Pop Culture
You’re More Attractive (to Twitter Users) If…

photo via flickr Sometimes the hash tags that trend on Twitter can make you hate humankind (#fatfilms this week, really, people? Are we back in junior high? What’s next, awards for “Most Outgoing” Twitter feed?!)… and sometimes they just make you want to reach out and hug someone. And sometimes they do both, as with this […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: How Does She Get Hubby to Have Sex More Than Twice a Year?

photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to […]

Horoscopes
Your Weekly Horoscopes: 03-11-13

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.) aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Just try to be a good person this week. We know, it’s hard, and you’d rather […]

Polls
Do You Name Your Favorite Sex Toys?

We know that guys name everything from their cars to the penises — and yes, it turns out that grown men who pay mortgages and have kids still do both of these things. So what about the ladies: Have any of you ever named a favorite sex toy that knew just how to get you […]

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Blog Snog: BDSM Is Not “Consensual Domestic Violence”

photo via The Frisky The Frisky: BDSM is not “consensual domestic violence.” YourTango: Have a bad headache? Cure it with sex. TresSugar: 9 books to put the spring back in your dating step. How About We: The 5 worst things to say to someone who just went through a breakup. HuffPo Women: 46 reasons to […]

Dream Interpretation
Dreams About My High School Sweetheart Make Me Cry – Help!

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I dream about my high school sweetheart often. The last time […]

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo, Do I Have to Tell Him I’m a Virgin?

photo via flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Yesterday we answered a thirty-something virgin’s plea for help. Today, we tell her and this woman and virgins everywhere whether they should tell the first guy they’re going to have intercourse with that they’re still carrying their V-cards: Dear Em & […]