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Wise Guys
Wise Guys – If Oral Feels So Good, Why Does It Take So Long?

photo by zoutedrop Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “My guy says getting a BJ is one of the best feeling things I can do for him, but it still takes forever to get him off. That seems like a total paradox….?“ Straight Single Guy (Chris): That may […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Made Out with a Hot Foreign Guy

photo via CollegeCandy.com Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: A little background: I had a crush on an eastern European guy I met at a night class. I used […]

News
I Can Has Gay Wedding

We usually hate anything that anthropomorphizes cuddly animals in some inanely cute way, like with tuxedos or having them work at a desk  or some shit like that (you know, the kind of stuff your mom forwards to you and her entire address book, NOT bcc’d). But we can’t resist this particular case, since it […]

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Blog Snog: Nipple Hair Is Okay, and Other Ways to Love Your Body

photo by Helga Weber EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Nipple hair is okay, and other ways to accept your body. TresSugar: Why it’s impossible to talk about abortion and not be political. CollegeCandy: Why he acts like a boyfriend then goes AWOL. MyDaily: What it’s really like to date a personal trainer. YourTango: How to let go of […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: I Said the Wrong Name in Bed!

photo by demi-brooke We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em and […]

Pop Culture
The Wisdom and Wit of Snooki

Somehow in the post-holidays hangover, we missed the fact that Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi — a.k.a. the Jersey Shore star with a pouf — made her debut as a novelist earlier this month, with A Shore Thing. Yep, she’s the one who once admitted she’d only read two books, Twilight and Dear John. (Which might explain […]

What's Up Doc?
Dr. Kate’s Female Sexual Dysfunction Series: ORGASM PROBLEMS (Pt 4 of 5)

All this month Dr. Kate, an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City, is dedicating her column on EMandLO.com to the topic female sexual dysfunction, since that’s what she seems to get the most inquiries about. Click here for all the installments of her five part series being published every […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Sexuality Does Not Determine Integrity

SEXUALITY DOES NOT DETERMINE INTEGRITY. PERIOD. And since faithfulness has it roots in integrity, sexuality doesn’t determine it any more than race, hair color, height, gender, etc. Each individual makes a CONSCIOUS decision as to whether or not they are going to be faithful. I’m straight and married to a bi-sexual, and I “hang” just […]

Pop Culture
Loving Hating Gwenyth

We always knew Gwyneth Paltrow was kind of annoying, but we didn’t realize it was “official” until we read the recent Time magazine review of her new movie “Country Strong,” which wasn’t so much a movie review as it was an account of how much people love to hate this her. For a recent example […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About the Female Condom?

Get the female condom at EdenFantasys Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How do men feel about the female condom? And if you’ve never had experience with one, how would you feel if your partner wanted to wear one?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Do My Dreams Predict Future Failed Relationships?

photo by greeblie Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I don’t have a problem meeting guys, but I do seem to have a problem keeping them around long enough […]

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Dorm Life FAIL: Real-Life Masturbation Pests or Urban Legend?

Regular readers of this blog will know that few things make us happier than FAILblog. We don’t think that teen guys wiping out during skateboard tricks are remotely funny, but a “chocolate chip muffin” with only one chocolate chip? Comedy genius. That all said, we hate to think of ourselves as suckers, which is why […]

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Blog Snog: Love Advice from Britney Spears Songs

TresSugar: The best and worst love advice from Britney Spears’ songs. CollegeCandy: Enough with all the dating studies already! YourTango: Your dating to-do list for 2011. TomFoolery: “I don’t hate your dog and I’m not jealous.” TheFrisky: 23 weapons every sexy man should have. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Great sex isn’t physical, it’s mental.

Pop Culture
Weird European Music Videos, Tres Sexee?

Our L.A. writer friend Charlie Amter recently launched a labor-of-love blog called EUROPOPPED, what he describes as “a little epic sideblog” to “turn on more people to the crazy Euro music vids” he finds every day. And they ARE crazy. Or just foreign. Or maybe something is just getting lost in translation. Whatever the reason, […]

Dear Em & Lo
What’s the Etiquette for Joining Someone Else’s Sex Session?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. We’re not convinced this particular inquiry […]

Movies
Can Best Friends Be Sex Friends?

You gotta love a movie trailer with lots swear words, nudity, sex scenes and menstruation references. We don’t think we’ve looked forward to an Ashton Kucher vehicle since “Dude, Where’s My Car,” but the “restricted” trailer (NOT one of the many sanitized-for-tv versions) for his next flick, “No Strings Attached,””co-starring the ever-present Natalie Portman (fingers […]