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Dear Em & Lo 21 hours ago
Dear Em & Lo, If I masturbate 3 times a day 7 days a week and haven't had a real sex partner in over a year, can I get…

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Dear Em & Lo, I am in a very loving relationship where I love my partner very much. However I fear I may be polyarmorous and I feel…

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, "Why do guys get back in touch with old flames? Booty call? Rekindle the romance? To prove…

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