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by Rebecca Jane Stokes for YourTango It's more than words.... So you want to know how to tell if a guy likes you? Welcome to the…

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide…

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Ten years ago today, Joey and I were married -- untraditionally, feministically, fantastically. By the spring of 2006, we knew we were going to be together, but we weren't sure we were going…

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Hand-to-bum contact, if you can pull it off without cracking up (heh, we said crack), is a great way to add some kinky flavor to your next sesh. It's intimate, it's saucy,…

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By Louise Lagris for Bust Magazine What’s the Buzz? In the world of vibrators, the Magic Wand is legendary—a veritable Excalibur wielded by many a thrill-seeking Lady of the Lake…

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