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How To 21 hours ago
Cunnilingus is one of the most daunting sexual tasks a person can undertake. It's one of those unfair facts of life: there's much more variation in what "works" among…

How To 3 days ago
Plenty of people hesitate to go down on a man, either because they're insecure about their skills or they just don't enjoy it. But many, many guys would give their non-dominant…

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Truthserum had some tough love for all the women with lazy lovers like the letter writer of "My Husband, a Selfish Lover, Won't Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm."…

Dear Em & Lo 1 week ago
We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best…

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We once met a woman who claimed (quite proudly, we might add), "I've always had dick, so I don't need to masturbate." Our eyes bulged, our jaws dropped, our…


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Be dry, fashionable, and gay or gay-friendly! Under $25.

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