Get More FREE Sex & Love Advice

Become a better lover: sign up for our newsletter!

Get an EXTRA

15% OFF LELO

Bestsellers already

ON SALE!

use code:

EMANDLO17
The Latest
What's Up Doc? 3 days ago
Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in Boston who lectures nationally on women’s health issues and conducts research on reproductive health.  She regularly (and…

Toys 4 days ago
No, we're not talking about broadcasting the dying-cow sound of your orgasm for all your neighbors to hear. We're talking about getting some decent speakers for your sex life,…

How To 5 days ago
The definition of sex is not "intercourse". You won't find terms like "going all the way" on this site, because intercourse is not the last lap you complete to…

Advice 1 week ago
What you want in a man should not be set in stone.  Relationships are confusing and knowing what we actually want out of one is even more confusing. It’s kind of…

Dear Em & Lo 1 week ago
There's no such thing as an "ugly vagina." Here's why... Dear Em & Lo, A male acquaintance recently started a conversation about "ugly" vaginas with my friends and me. He said that some vaginas…


Hot Topics
Em&Lo's Latest Book
Favorite Finds
Must Read 2 weeks ago
Did you know 19th-century poetry could be so bad ass?

Bath Time 1 month ago
Six fizzy bath balls in various romantic scents: Inspire, Desire, Passion, Aphrodisiac, Lust, Crave, and Affection. No artificial colors or dyes to stain your tub!

Classic Vibe 1 month ago
Your pleasure chest isn't complete without this famous "back massager" that can magically pull out orgasms from even the toughest cookie.

Must Read 2 months ago
Ted-talker Esther Perel's great book on the complexities of maintaining desire in long term relationships.

Must-Have Accessory 2 months ago
There's only a week or so left of Pride Month, but you can be your own LGBTQ superhero any day with this rainbow cape!