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Confessions 6 days ago
Reader Corrinne recently responded to a comment by Madamoiselle L on the post "I'm Put Out About His Porn." First L's comment, followed by Corrinne's:  Plehay said: “I’ve had…

What's Up Doc? 6 days ago
Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in Boston who lectures nationally on women’s health issues and conducts research on reproductive health.  She regularly (and generously!) answers…

Pop Culture 7 days ago
It's baaaaaaaack. The premiere of season 12 of ABC's The Bachelorette found (the boobs of) Joelle "JoJo" Fletcher bouncing back from being very ceremoniously dumped on national television by milquetoast…

Your Call 1 week ago
We get a lot of advice questions coming in at, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best…

Dear Em & Lo 2 weeks ago
Dear Em & Lo, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we live together. In the beginning we were madly in love but then, as with…

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Smell Good 5 days ago
In a totally non-scientific scent-test by Buzzfeed, Gillette's "Fresh" scent was found most sexy and appealing.

Smell Good 1 week ago
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You've seen the movie(s); it's finally time to read the famous 16th century book of moral and emotional depravity.

Must Sock 2 weeks ago
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Party Favors 3 weeks ago
Having a party? Got roommates? Going off to college? Why not buy in bulk for all of your friends so you're never caught with your pants down…