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TV 2 days ago
With hometown dates complete, we all said a sad goodbye to "Bachelorette" favorite Dean Unglert and wrapped our brains around the fact that one of the remaining men might be Rachel…

What's Up Doc? 4 days ago
Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex & relationships. If you’ve got a good one, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg just might tell you what it means! 

Confessions 5 days ago
Pete had some interesting (and some potentially controversial) thoughts in response to our post "If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?": When a guy asks this…

Personal Essays 1 week ago
I started having intercourse at 15. Besides the perpetual awkwardness of budding teenage sexuality and the occasional urinary tract infection (UTI), my first few

How To 1 week ago
Everyone has experienced shame at some point in their lives. But not everyone is aware that the emotion is there until it creeps up to the surface in the form of panic,…


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Bath Time 1 week ago
Six fizzy bath balls in various romantic scents: Inspire, Desire, Passion, Aphrodisiac, Lust, Crave, and Affection. No artificial colors or dyes to stain your tub!

Classic Vibe 2 weeks ago
Your pleasure chest isn't complete without this famous "back massager" that can magically pull out orgasms from even the toughest cookie.

Must Read 3 weeks ago
Ted-talker Esther Perel's great book on the complexities of maintaining desire in long term relationships.

Must-Have Accessory 1 month ago
There's only a week or so left of Pride Month, but you can be your own LGBTQ superhero any day with this rainbow cape!

Must Pride 1 month ago
A must have for your local gay pride parade!