Question of the Week: Where Do You Stand on the 69?

What’s your opinion on the 69? Is it a win-win in the bedroom, the ultimate in quid-pro-quo? An intense, in-your-face (literally!) intimacy? Or is it distracting/boring/complicated/claustrophobic?

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Skeptical Observer

I try NOT to do it standing, lol
Beyond that I’d probably rather separate the cunnilingus from the fellatio, less distraction!


I’m not a fan. I find myself getting too distracted by one part of the experience and not focusing enough on the other. I’d rather just enjoy receiving without needing to worry about sucking him at the same time, or focus on giving him head and enjoying his reaction without being distracted by what he’s doing.

Jersey City Joe

It is over rated. It is almost impossible to relax enough to enjoy your partners ministrations while you are doing your best to pleasure them.

I think 69 is one of the more misunderstood sex acts. Old Idea: one of you should be kneeling over the other in sort of a reverse missionary position. Not! That’s how it’s classically shown (it’s even shown that way on the statuary in the photo for this post!) New Idea: One of the best ways I’ve found to do it is lying side by side using each other’s knees as pillows to support your heads. This also leaves each of you with at least one and usually both arms and hands free. Old Idea: The point of 69 is… Read more »
C. Craig

I love it. Me & my man ALWAYS do the 69. He just turned 47 & I will be 39 ths yr. We rarely hv quickies, so whenever we make love, 69 is something tht we love doin.

Martha Boffin

I adore 69 so much! I just adore it when my man puts his fingers in my anus and my lady-parts and then focuses his mouth on my launch button.

Plus the goo is great for the complexion.


Personally, I adore it. I have somewhat of a fetish when it comes to fellatio, so no bits in mouth = taking longer for me to orgasm.
That being said, I prefer side by side so you both have control over movement and neither party tires out too quickly. Plus the view isn’t quite as “Oh hi…here’s a view of my ass you probably didn’t ever want.”
It’s great as a warm up, a way to finish or just a way to get the job (no pun etc) done quickly.