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Tag Archive | "Oral Sex"

Wise Guys – If Oral Feels So Good, Why Does It Take So Long?

Tuesday, January 25, 2011


photo by zoutedrop Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “My guy says getting a BJ is one of the best feeling things I can do for him, but it still takes forever to get him off. That seems like a total paradox….?“ Straight Single Guy (Chris): That may [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Enjoy Receiving Oral More?

Thursday, September 2, 2010


photo by Bogdan Suditu Dear Em & Lo. I’m a 48-year-old female and I can’t seem to achieve an orgasm during oral sex. It all seems too intense. However, I don’t have any problems when masturbating. I feel it is like… someone else scratching your feet… it tickles. If I do it myself, it doesn’t [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, My Boyfriend Doesn’t Care About My Orgasm

Friday, August 6, 2010


illustration via Foxtongue Dear Em & Lo, I love my boyfriend very much, but he comes so early on that I’m left hanging. Receiving oral sex ahead of time would sure get me that orgasm, but he doesn’t even do that! I NEVER orgasm, because as long as he gets his, it seems to not [...]

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Your Call – Does Bad Sex Have to Be a Deal-Breaker?

Tuesday, August 3, 2010


photo by M31. Can sexual compatibility improve over time in a relationship — or does it need to be there from the start for the relationship to work? Is bad sex necessarily a deal-breaker? Read the letter below and then advise “Underwhelmed” in the feedback section below. Dear Em & Lo, I’ve always been a [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s the Appeal of Giving Oral?

Tuesday, July 13, 2010


photo by Bogdan Suditu Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “For guys who like to give oral sex, what’s the appeal? What differentiates them from the guys who seem to hate giving it?” Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos): From all the straight men that I‚Äôve queried over this [...]

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The 347th Reason Why It Was Good to Be an Eighties Child

Thursday, June 10, 2010


At least once a week we’re reminded how glad we are that we were teens in the eighties and not today. Take clothes, for example — when we were in high school, it was actually cool to wear men’s XL Champion sweatshirts and baggy boxer-style shorts. Sure, we all regret pegging our jeans, but it [...]

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Christina Aguilera Replaces “Vajayjay” with “Woohoo”

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

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We’re predicting the big pop hit of the summer is here — and it’s a going to be an anthem for girls nights out all over the country. For Christina Aguilera’s new song “Woohoo” featuring Nicki Minaj (from her album Bionic out this June) is all about the joys of cunnilingus. Best line ever: “All [...]

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Wise Guys – Why Aren’t Some Men Up for Going Down?

Tuesday, March 16, 2010


Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do guys seem to dislike giving oral sex more than woman seem to dislike giving it?“ Gay Married Guy (Jon Ross): I’ve met a bunch of straight men and woman who dislike the pastime, which is a bit of a mystery [...]

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France Finally Shocked By Something: Anti-Smoking Ad

Monday, March 1, 2010


The slogan for the above anti-smoking ad currently running in France reads “Smoking means being a slave to tobacco.” Despite promoting a universally recognized good cause — getting kids to stop smoking — the ad has managed to piss off pretty much everyone. And this is in France, where the words “sex” and “scandal” (or, [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa: Can I Get HPV Orally?

Thursday, February 18, 2010


photo by db*photography Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, Can you get genital HPV orally? – Orally Fixated Dear O.F., Yes, you can.¬† [...]

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