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Dream Interpretation: Awake I’m Female, Asleep I’m Male

Tuesday, January 19, 2010


photo by grandcamel Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: My boyfriend and I broke up recently because of trust issues I have, but a couple days ago we decided [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Appreciate Oral Sex Directions?

Tuesday, December 1, 2009


photo by kalleboo Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How do you feel about being given directions while you’re going downtown? Do you appreciate instructions on what works for that particular woman, or do you feel like it’s backseat driving, or that you’re just a tool or a [...]

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Sqweel: LoveHoney’s New Oral Sex Simulator Delivers

Thursday, October 15, 2009


Buy the Sqweel at LoveHoney.co.uk We’re often asked “If you could invent your own sex toy, what would it do?” And usually we can only think of a wise-ass answer like, “Cuddle, make dinner, and call me when it says it will.” But fortunately for everyone with a clitoris in their life, some people out [...]

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Confession: I’m Relocating Oral Sex Past Home Base

Wednesday, September 30, 2009


photo by ShashiBellamkonda Our contributor Abby Spector, who is double-majoring in English and Feminine/Gender/Sexuality Studies at Wesleyan University, has a confession to make: From an early age, sex always seemed logical to me. Penis goes into vagina. Perhaps orgasms ensue. Perhaps a baby grows. Perhaps not. The end. It didn’t sound appealing, but it didn’t [...]

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Wise Guys: What Makes a Great BJ?

Tuesday, September 1, 2009


photo by iandeth Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the difference between an average blowjob and an excellent blowjob?” Straight Single Guy (Chris): I have had a handful of extraordinary blowjobs in my lifetime. Generally I say something to any talented giver, pointing out how noteworthy her [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: How Can I Smell and Taste Better Down There

Wednesday, August 12, 2009


photo by longhorndave Dear Em & Lo, My husband and I have been been sexually active with one another for five years.  I’ve been smoking cigarettes for four years. I slowed down dramatically when I got pregnant in 2007 (from needing my own pack to two cigarettes a day or none at all). My husband [...]

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Your Call: Is No Oral a Relationship Dealbreaker?

Tuesday, July 21, 2009


Vintage illustration via Foxtongue Dear Em & Lo, My new boyfriend doesn’t like either giving or receiving head. I really enjoy giving head and so it’s a disappointment to me that he doesn’t like it, though not the end of the world. What might be the end of the world is that he doesn’t want [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Hate Receiving BJs

Wednesday, July 8, 2009


photo by rick Dear Em & Lo, I’m a guy and I hate getting blowjobs. Maybe it’s because I had a few too many bad teeth-to-johnson experiences or I’m just a little too sensitive down there, but when a girl starts kissing me all the way down, I grit my teeth and prepare for the [...]

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Poll: Are You a Fan of the 69?

Thursday, July 2, 2009


<br /> <a href=”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1717818/” mce_href=”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1717818/”>What do you think of 69-ing?</a><span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”>(<a href=”http://www.polldaddy.com” mce_href=”http://www.polldaddy.com”>poll</a>)</span><br /> Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Wise Guys: What’s the Big Deal About BJs?

Tuesday, May 12, 2009


photo by iandeth Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What’s the big deal about blowjobs — seriously, what makes them so special? Gay Single Guy (Daniel): On the physical level, it’s simple: they feel fucking amazing. They provide physical sensations so desirable that a straight man would let [...]

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