The Cadillac of Vibrators Gets a 21st Century Upgrade

By Louise Lagris for Bust Magazine What’s the Buzz? In the world of vibrators, the Magic Wand is legendary—a veritable Excalibur wielded by many a thrill-seeking Lady of the Lake for top-notch clit stimulation. Hitachi, the original manufacturer, removed its name from the gadget in 2013, but even 48 years after it was first introduced […]

Sex Poetry
And the Winner of Our Masturbation Month Haiku Contest Is . . .

THE WINNER: Kids at last asleep My wife went out to Costco A break from laundry — Carol R. Congratulations to Carol, who will soon be the proud owner of a luxury Ina Wave pleasure object from (worth $200). With so many fantastic entries to choose from, it was a tough call to make, […]

Introducing Remoji, PicoBong’s New Remote-Controlled Toy Line!

sponsored post Sex in public is all about discretion. You want to enjoy yourself, but not at the expense of other people’s comfort and dignity. They just want to have their drink in peace, not be unwitting voyeurs of your not-so-private fantasy. As the old saying goes, it doesn’t matter what you do, so long as you […]

10 Toys Every Straight Girl Should Have in Her Pleasure Chest

You probably have one trusty, old, well-worn vibe that does the trick. But any self-respecting pleasure enthusiast should have at least a couple of these 10 basics in their bedside toy chest. They’ll support you in both your quality alone time and your partner play. Remember, the won who dies with the most toys wins! 1. Lube If […]

Wise Guys
What Do Men Think About Sex Toys in Bed?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How do most guys feel when a woman brings her favorite sex toy into the bedroom? Threatened? Excited? Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos): Unless it’s the Jackhammer Jesus, or obscenely elephantine, I think it’s generally safe — educationally thrilling even — to […]

10 Saucy Gifts for Stuffing Your Partner’s…Stocking

This holiday season, why not give your partner the kind of gift that will make you want to unwrap each other? Yes, we’re talking about premium sex toys. And no, we don’t think you should open these gifts in front of your mother-in-law. Here are ten gift-worthy ideas from LELO — some for him, some […]

This 24k Gold Wearable Couples’ Toy Is Both Luxurious & Affordable

Are you ready for the ultimate in sex toy luxury…at a price that won’t break the bank? Because, seriously, while we love the idea of investing in sexual pleasure, most of us don’t have fifteen thousand dollars to splurge on a gold vibrator*. But how about $199 for a 24 karat gold-plated couples’ massager? Now […]

Win a FREE High-End Rabbit Vibrator from LELO!

THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED. But you can still sign up below for EM & Lo’s once-in-a-while newsletter of kick-ass sex & relationship tips — that way, you’re guaranteed to be a winner! Are these shorter days and darker nights getting you down? Then maybe you need an energizing bunny to put the hop back […]

Dear Em & Lo
How to Make Masturbation with a Vibrator Feel Less Lonely

Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 24-year-old woman who hasn’t had sex in 4 years, 10 months, 15 days, 5 hours, 51 minutes…well, you get the idea. I had my first boyfriend when I was twenty and it lasted for four months. He was my first sexual partner, and as of today, my last. I […]

Your Call
Is It Okay to Use a Vibrator That’s Bigger Than My Boyfriend?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been with my […]