sponsored post ***Originally Posted on May 2nd, 2013*** Introducing Our “Get Closer Go Further” Project We’re thrilled to team up with Durex for this “Get Closer to Go Further” project, which encourages committed couples to do just that: build intimacy in order to explore more sexual territories together. And when we say “go further,” we’re not just talking […]
photo via flickr The bizarre, unsettling cicada invasion got us thinking about all the other kinds of things that would be way easier to handle if they occurred only every 17 years… A D-list reality TV star’s sex tape is “accidentally” distributed. UTI’s. Someone says “I’ll call you” and never does. Reverse wheelbarrow sex. A […]
photo via ABC.com 1. Vocal fry is so not hot. 2. If you have a sense of humor, please use it when you’re one on one with the person you’re trying to charm. (We’re talking to you, Mr. ER doctor with the glasses and the droopy eyes). And while we’re at it, if you have […]
Tilda Swinton, open relationship poster child We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. Submit Your […]
photo by Simply Schmoopie aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Your involvement in a worthy cause will impress someone this week. And no, a Fifty Shades book club or an outing to see Oz the Great and Powerful doesn’t count as a cause. It’s time to get involved where it really counts–help little old ladies across the […]
Our book group just read “Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead” by Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg. According to its Amazon descrip, she (and let’s be honest, her writing and research team) examine “why women’s progress in achieving leadership roles has stalled, explains the root causes, and offers compelling, commonsense solutions that can empower […]
photo via Flickr Nerve: Does a higher IQ lead to kinkier sex? The Frisky: An erotica eBook with…Rep. Michele Bachmann as the inspiration? YourTango: Take the Durex Sex Survey! HuffPo Women: Are shirtless men the new big thing in advertising? PopSugar: The 10 rules of the wedding hook-up. How About We: An ode to long walks […]
“Em & Lo’s Shades of Play Kit” at GoodVibes Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have, for lack of […]
photo via flickr Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has this to say about the importance of taking turns… I’m pretty sure I’m not alone in having this ever-present fantasy of succumbing to someone else completely — someone who’ll give me a […]
The wise and wonderful Figleaf had the following to say in response to our post, “Your Call: Should She and Her Boyf Go to An Orgy?” I’m with M — assuming you can find some people who play that way then yeah, take it in stages. And definitely make it clear to your partner that […]
We believe that the quickie is one of the most underrated sex acts out there. Perhaps this is because everyone from Sting to porn producers to teen boys reciting baseball statistics in bed are convinced that going long is always better. Here are five reasons why, sometimes, less is more. 1. You Need Your Beauty […]
We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. Dear Em & Lo, Last night, while watching […]
photo by Simply Schmoopie aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Don’t turn your back on someone who has been loyal to you for years — this might refer to love, or it may apply simply to a friendship or business relationship. Shame on you for even considering it, by the way! Think of everything they’ve ever done […]
More than half of all women have put off sex — even when they were in the mood — because they felt too fat. A recent study showed that how a woman feels about her body has more influence on libido than even menopause — and we have the letters in our inbox to back […]
photo via The Frisky The Frisky: 11 times when it’s totally appropriate to have a loud orgasm. Nerve: Which Arrested Development star would you get sex advice from? YourTango: 4 reasons why second marriages are better than first. HuffPo Women: The man no woman needs in her life. PopSugar: GIF Quiz: Are you over him […]
photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: In the past couple of days I have had weird dreams […]
