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Dr. Kate, I Fall Asleep After Orgasms…and I’m a Woman!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

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photo via Flickr Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions every few weeks on EMandLO.com. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I sleep so much better after an orgasm! Sometimes when I’m having trouble sleeping [...]

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Comment of the Week: Don’t Go Chasing Orgasms

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

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photo by The World According to Marty Best snarky indictment ever [in the post "A Guide to Orgasm Etiquette"]: “He approaches handwork like weeding (‘Must. Dig Up. Orgasm!’)” I used to be so obsessed with “giving” my partners orgasms. And while I’m pretty good at it (the upside of obsession) I also turned a lot [...]

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A Guide to Orgasm Etiquette

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

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We hope we don’t need to point out that just one orgasm, for one partner, is not the finishing tape of a sex run. Instead, think of sex as a three-legged race — your partner can neither compete nor cross the finish line without your help, and vice versa. Each partner should make a concerted [...]

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Comment of the Week: Let’s Hear It for Sex After 40!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

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photo via IMDB In a recent “Your Call” post, a reader of our site oh-so-casually mentioned how she became multiply orgasmic in her forties, after a sexually unsatisfying marriage. Turns out she’s not the only one. After a rather boring sexually 13-year marriage, I have found a whole new world of sex. I love it [...]

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Wise Guys: Can a Woman Say “You Go Ahead” In Bed?

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

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photo by footfan33602 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “When a woman says, ‘We can focus on you now, it’s not going to happen for me tonight,’ how do guys tend to feel about this? Relieved? Insulted? Is it a mood-killer?” To ask the guys your own question, [...]

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Your Call – How Can I Convince Him He’s the Best in Bed?

Friday, October 29, 2010

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photo by Icrontic We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Anal, Orgasms and Advertising

Thursday, October 21, 2010

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photo by rhys alton One of the most popular and commented-on posts is about strap-on sex. It’s not exactly a point of pride for us. We’re much more about the happy feel-good feminist relationship posts. And we worry that this prominent butt-sex mention is what keeps the advertisers away (of course, it could be the [...]

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Your Call – How Can I Enjoy My Sex Life As Much As My Sex Toy?

Friday, October 1, 2010

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photo by ValtheKid We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Enjoy Receiving Oral More?

Thursday, September 2, 2010

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photo by Bogdan Suditu Dear Em & Lo. I’m a 48-year-old female and I can’t seem to achieve an orgasm during oral sex. It all seems too intense. However, I don’t have any problems when masturbating. I feel it is like… someone else scratching your feet… it tickles. If I do it myself, it doesn’t [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, My Boyfriend Can’t Give Me an Orgasm

Friday, August 13, 2010

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photo by Brandon Baunach Dear Em & Lo, I have the opposite problem of last week’s advice seeker: My boyfriend is more than willing to go down on me, but I have a very hard time having an orgasm from it. I know it frustrates him that I don’t orgasm every time (or even most [...]

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