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Tag Archive | "Orgasms"

New Research Shows We Still Have No F-ing Clue About the Female Orgasm

Friday, September 9, 2011

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photo via flickr The female orgasm is a mystery, and not just in that how-the-hell-can-I-make-my-girlfriend-climax kind of way. Scientists just can’t seem to figure out what it’s there for. The most recent theory — popularized in the 2005 book The Case of the Female Orgasm — was that it was just an accidental evolutionary by-product [...]

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How to Close the Orgasm Gap

Thursday, July 28, 2011

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image from nDevilTV It’s not exactly rocket science to say that men orgasm more often than women when they have sex with each other. Now, if you had to guess, what do you think happens to this orgasm gap as a relationship progresses from casual hookup to repeated hookup to serious commitment? Yep, the orgasm [...]

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Your Call: Why Doesn’t Oral or Manual Feel Like My Rabbit?

Friday, June 3, 2011

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & Lo, I have [...]

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6 Sexual Habits Everyone Should Keep

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

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photo via CollegeCandy.com We constantly hear how we should avoid getting into a sexual rut and keep trying new things. But just as important is to develop some good sexual habits — things that you should be engaging in on a regular basis with your partner (whatever regular means to you) — now and always. [...]

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Keeping (It) Up with the Joneses: A Multi-Orgasmic Man Tells All

Friday, May 6, 2011

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photo by ValtheKid In the first book the two of us wrote together, a sex manual called The Big Bang, we included the throwaway line “multiple orgasms for men — sorry, that’s a whole ‘nother book.” (What can we say, we only had a few hundred pages to work with, and it seemed to us [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: I Can’t Orgasm, What’s Wrong With Me?

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

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photo by Janine Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I’m beginning to wonder if I’m unable to have an orgasm. I’ve been sexual with [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: Is This Urine or Female Ejaculate?

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

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photo of Old Faithful by Chuck Martin Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I am wondering if it is possible for a woman to [...]

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Your Call: Why Can’t I Climax from Oral?

Friday, March 11, 2011

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illustration via Foxtongue We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Comment of the Week: Advice to Fakers from Someone Who Feels Your Pain

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

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I totally feel your pain. I have never been able to orgasm with my boyfriend of over a year (the only guy I’ve slept with) or on my own. It can be very disheartening. One thing that is especially irritating is the way so much advice is worded. “You know you’ve gotten to the big [...]

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10 Rules About Geysers, Facials, and Pearl Necklaces

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

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photo by Erica C There comes a time in every guy’s life when he wants to pull out and impersonate Old Faithful, just for the visual. Or perhaps there come many times. Women, too, may appreciate the visual — just like the hickey, it’s a spectacle (though hopefully not one that your co-workers will spot [...]

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