7/26/11
Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.

anonymous_suitStraight Married Guy (Figleaf): Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book that introduced the idea of G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, has a whole chapter devoted to the principle that “the best is the enemy of the good.” The authors worried specifically that if people obsess over having or (worse, I think) giving G-spot orgasms, they’re likely to wind up disappointed with their ordinary old eye-rolling, breathtaking, toe-curling ones.

I’ve had sex with a couple of partners who “squirt” at least some of the time. And while obviously everyone’s mileage varies, I never got the impression from them that those orgasms were any more enjoyable, or less, than the “regular” kind.

Straight Single Guy (David Grossman): Female ejaculation is the greatest compliment a woman can give to her partner. It doesn’t take much to make a man climax, but being able to make a woman ejaculate is a skill and an honor.

joel_derfner_100Gay Married Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Ew.

Our “wise guys” are a rotating group of contributors, some of whom wish to remain anonymous and some of whom like the attention. David Grossman recently graduated from Stony Brook University in New York; this week’s Gay Married Guy is Joel Derfner, author of Swish; and our Straight Married Guy is Figleaf, the guy behind RealAdultSex.com. To ask the guys your own question, click here.

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David
David
3 years 11 months ago
I have made my wife squirt many times and I think it is AWESOME. If she doesn’t squirt it doesn’t mean that she isn’t satisfied nor am I. Matter of fact my wife thinks it’s great too that she can do it for me. And if she doesn’t, it doesn’t mean that she wasn’t satisfied. Whether she squirts or not, we’re both always satisfied. For those guys who think it can’t be done or don’t like it then I have only one thing to say to you…shut up because you’re GAY! God Bless you women that can squirt for yourself… Read more »
imatrulove
imatrulove
4 years 17 days ago

Oooooooooo. Just read the post from “reader on June 2nd. I hope you come back to read what a total idiot you are. You obviously have never brought a woman to this level. Sorry for u .. but don’t go spouting off on something you obviously know nothing about. I can gush cup loads over and over and Still go into to the bathroom to pee. Btw. Men can achieve squirting as well. I know .. my lover has..it wasn’t cum. It was squirt.

imatrulove
imatrulove
4 years 17 days ago
I’ve alway been highly orgasmic woman… But I had never heard of or had a Female orgasm.(I’m 48.)…until I met the love of my life ….my soul mate…. my sexual equal….. I agree it is the most amazing gift….. I feel so empowered. It’s a whole heightend level of intimacy… I am his Goddesses. His Queen.. When it’s over I am weak and vaulrable and he praises me and loves me tells me how beautiful I am.. often I am brought to tears from the sheer force of exticy. The ability to achieve this has changed me forever…. I hope… Read more »
smrn
smrn
4 years 28 days ago

Honestly, guys, think about it-could you pee while you are having an orgasm?

According to hubby, it smells sweet like clover, and I tend to agree with him. If you are interested in doing this, invest in a g-spot dildo and experiment with it. The key for me, however, is TRUST in my partner.

pep
pep
4 years 1 month ago

what u guys fail to realize that a soaked mattress is a bitch to dry out, and catching a cold by laying in a cold puddle isn’t so thrilling. sure its nice but isn’t it the same as piss minus the smell. you get a warm sensation and its sorta like being under a sprinkler..or mist machine….or in my case a running bathtub faucet. yea its cool and i like it but i wouldn’t mind limiting it to once or twice a month. and pray my girl doesn’t read this

Chicklet
Chicklet
4 years 1 month ago
I’m 38. When I was much younger and experimenting with myself/looking for the elusive g-spot- I could count on some fluid coming out. It wasn’t urine. I sort of forgot about that whole phase once I became sexually active. That is, until I met my current boyfriend. I’d say 50% of the time I ejaculate when we have sex. I’ve had many sex partners and this has not happened with another person before. My observations: – I am totally comfortable, relaxed and unself-conscious with him. – We enjoy a lot of foreplay and don’t rush. – I never think about… Read more »
Beth
Beth
4 years 1 month ago
I never started squirting until I was pregnant. I was always fairly sexually active and definitely multi orgasmic. But ever since I had my kid, I squirt almost every time I have sex, several times. Sometimes during orgasm, sometimes just before or after. I almost always put a towel down, because I literally soak the sheets. I’m probably abnormal, since I usually orgasm within 5 minutes of starting intercourse, and about 15-20 more times in my typical 30-45min session. I’m don’t have urinary incontinence, and I squirt with almost anyone I’m with, one night stand or regular partner, and it… Read more »
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