Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.

anonymous_suitStraight Married Guy (Figleaf): Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book that introduced the idea of G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, has a whole chapter devoted to the principle that “the best is the enemy of the good.” The authors worried specifically that if people obsess over having or (worse, I think) giving G-spot orgasms, they’re likely to wind up disappointed with their ordinary old eye-rolling, breathtaking, toe-curling ones.

I’ve had sex with a couple of partners who “squirt” at least some of the time. And while obviously everyone’s mileage varies, I never got the impression from them that those orgasms were any more enjoyable, or less, than the “regular” kind.

Straight Single Guy (David Grossman): Female ejaculation is the greatest compliment a woman can give to her partner. It doesn’t take much to make a man climax, but being able to make a woman ejaculate is a skill and an honor.

joel_derfner_100Gay Married Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Ew.

Our “wise guys” are a rotating group of contributors, some of whom wish to remain anonymous and some of whom like the attention. David Grossman recently graduated from Stony Brook University in New York; this week’s Gay Married Guy is Joel Derfner, author of Swish; and our Straight Married Guy is Figleaf, the guy behind RealAdultSex.com. To ask the guys your own question, click here.

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It is absolutely a beautiful and most gorgeous phenomenon, to achieve and experience this wonderful experience is enlightening,fulfilling,one of life’s most gorgeous experiences


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Sori guys,bt wen I dated a mor mature guy wo had me squirtn den I realised wat it was,


I was told about squirtin,bt nva experienced it,I hav seen it happen in porn movies,bt I found it a bit embarrasing,bt wen I realised dat he was ok wid it,I seem 2 b ok wid wid it evry tim he entered me tink I squirtd ova 25 times,some we’re forceful some we’re a smal stream,I jus wana here 4rm my partner how he feels.

Hey all I’m female and during my first orgasms which were on my own I always ejaculated, at the time I didn’t really know a great deal about it, after a while it became less common and would only happen on my 4/5th multiple orgasm, I didn’t think it could happen during sex because I didn’t really enjoy sex much, I had completely forgot about it and hadn’t had an ejaculation for years when whilst having sex on a one time off with an ex partner I was ontop when I ejaculated, he’d never known that it happened and accused… Read more »
I think that a Lady ejaculating is wonderful. It is not only a unique and special expression of the Goddess “Within” but it is also, a means to for the Lady to experience, heightened, full-body-pleasure! Ps…I am so glad that women can feel good about exploring, experimenting, and discovering new ways of sharing their sexuality. There is a book that is called: The Masseur by author John M. Martin that has two steamy scenes, with a Lady named SuSan, who ejaculates all over the masseur’s face and neck. Pss…There is a 11 page free preview of the book at: LuLu… Read more »

my BF loves when i squirt (more like a gush really) i am 38 and had only done this once before with a guy i was dating. I was so embarrassed…at first i thought i had no bladder control. Last night my boyfriend was so turned on by this!! i find it more of a mess than a turn on, but the g-spot orgasm is AMAZING, and it makes it special because my guy loves it so much. 🙂 – now i am just trying to learn how to actually control it!