Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.

anonymous_suitStraight Married Guy (Figleaf): Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book that introduced the idea of G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, has a whole chapter devoted to the principle that “the best is the enemy of the good.” The authors worried specifically that if people obsess over having or (worse, I think) giving G-spot orgasms, they’re likely to wind up disappointed with their ordinary old eye-rolling, breathtaking, toe-curling ones.

I’ve had sex with a couple of partners who “squirt” at least some of the time. And while obviously everyone’s mileage varies, I never got the impression from them that those orgasms were any more enjoyable, or less, than the “regular” kind.

Straight Single Guy (David Grossman): Female ejaculation is the greatest compliment a woman can give to her partner. It doesn’t take much to make a man climax, but being able to make a woman ejaculate is a skill and an honor.

joel_derfner_100Gay Married Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Ew.

Our “wise guys” are a rotating group of contributors, some of whom wish to remain anonymous and some of whom like the attention. David Grossman recently graduated from Stony Brook University in New York; this week’s Gay Married Guy is Joel Derfner, author of Swish; and our Straight Married Guy is Figleaf, the guy behind RealAdultSex.com. To ask the guys your own question, click here.


  1. It is absolutely a beautiful and most gorgeous phenomenon, to achieve and experience this wonderful experience is enlightening,fulfilling,one of life’s most gorgeous experiences

  2. Sori guys,bt wen I dated a mor mature guy wo had me squirtn den I realised wat it was,

  3. Hi
    I was told about squirtin,bt nva experienced it,I hav seen it happen in porn movies,bt I found it a bit embarrasing,bt wen I realised dat he was ok wid it,I seem 2 b ok wid wid it evry tim he entered me tink I squirtd ova 25 times,some we’re forceful some we’re a smal stream,I jus wana here 4rm my partner how he feels.

  4. Hey all
    I’m female and during my first orgasms which were on my own I always ejaculated, at the time I didn’t really know a great deal about it, after a while it became less common and would only happen on my 4/5th multiple orgasm, I didn’t think it could happen during sex because I didn’t really enjoy sex much,
    I had completely forgot about it and hadn’t had an ejaculation for years when whilst having sex on a one time off with an ex partner I was ontop when I ejaculated,
    he’d never known that it happened and accused me of urinating on him lol I was so confused that I actually started to believe that maybe that’s what it was

    my new partner however is quite experienced and he lasts a long time but I would normally stop the sex and say that I felt like I needed to go the bathroom, when going to the bathroom I didn’t actually need to pee
    he realised what was going on and talked to me about whether I had ejaculated before because he’d read somewhere that it felt like you needed to go the bathroom during sex, I told him that I hadn’t done it in a long time but I had done it
    he got really excited about it, he said that he loved them but no one he had been with had ever been able to do it, he spent a good bit of time telling me about how to make it easier to happen and how bad he wanted to see it
    when we finally got down to actually doing it I think he enjoyed it more than I did 🙂
    I guess it depends on the guy when it comes to it but it is rather messy, messier than the males ejaculation,
    I think if you compare it to how a girl would feel if a guy ejaculated on her then there would be some girls that say hell no and some girls that don’t mind

  5. I think that a Lady ejaculating is wonderful. It is not only a unique and special expression of the Goddess “Within” but it is also, a means to for the Lady to experience, heightened, full-body-pleasure!

    Ps…I am so glad that women can feel good about exploring, experimenting, and discovering new ways of sharing their sexuality.

    There is a book that is called: The Masseur by author John M. Martin that has two steamy scenes, with a Lady named SuSan, who ejaculates all over the masseur’s face and neck.

    Pss…There is a 11 page free preview of the book at: LuLu . c o m

  6. my BF loves when i squirt (more like a gush really) i am 38 and had only done this once before with a guy i was dating. I was so embarrassed…at first i thought i had no bladder control. Last night my boyfriend was so turned on by this!! i find it more of a mess than a turn on, but the g-spot orgasm is AMAZING, and it makes it special because my guy loves it so much. 🙂 – now i am just trying to learn how to actually control it!

  7. My favorite squirting aid is our “Liberator Through blanket” We ordered it from an online store and it is amazing! It’s made for squirting sex, it has a waterproof barrier in the middle with a silky covering on one side of the barrier and a plush covering on the other side for you to choose the side you like most. It looks like a sexy blanket that you just through on your bed. What I like is that it almost covers our queen size mattress entirely, this allows my wife to squirt crazy far and in different positions.

  8. Friends! We have solved the mess problem! I mean come on, when you are a gusher or you sleep with a gusher, there is new meaning to the term wet spot! Towels can soak through.
    The thing that works is a product designed for incontinent rabbits – a soft, quilted cotton pad with a soft waterproof material on the reverse side, completely washable about a yard square, holds 2 cups liquid!
    We keep one by the bed or folded under the pillow and lay it across a chair to dry after use before going in the wash. This product can be purchased for around $20.00 at the site http://catfaeries.com

  9. I squirt and personally I hate it I just wanna b normal!! Some guys hate it as well. To me I guess its a bit of a curse
    its every single time 🙁

  10. I am 20 and a squirter and i never know how to tell my partners about this, i find it embarrising to say it before we do the deed and soorta makes me feel all selfconsious about it afterwords. its even more embarrising to me if it happens during and seeing their stunned faces. i cant read if they liked it or not, they always smirk and i dont know if its a disgusting smirk or a happy one. i do love my orgasms but sometimes when i dont know the guy or trust him yet id wish i wouldnt flood my juices all ovr him

  11. Hello everyone. I recently discovered a dee months ago that I am one of the very lucky women who can experiance female ejaculation(squirting)!!!! And its the best thing ever and my boyfriend loves it. The orgasm is explosive as well as mind blowing!

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