Dear Em & Lo,
I hate how I look after gaining 40lbs in the last 5 years. I was only 115lbs. What should I do ? He thinks I’m sexy no matter what. How can I feel the same?
— Weighed Down
What should Weighed Down do? Advise her in the comments section below. [And yes, before you say anything: We are fully aware that the woman in the photo above is far from being 40lb overweight. In fact, we don’t think she’s overweight at all! But we love the fact she is smiling despite the fact that many people would look at this pic and think, “I hate how my stomach is hanging over my underwear.”]