Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend Impregnates Someone Else

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it (18 and older only, please). This week, a reader asks Lauri:

I dreamt a woman that I didn’t know told me my boyfriend was cheating on me and that he was very excited because the girl was pregnant. Then the woman who my boyfriend cheated on me with appeared and said she was happy to meet me. I thought she was very unattractive but nice and that made me angry. She introduced herself as his girlfriend, she thought we had broken up. When I said he is my boyfriend, we live together and have 2 children she looked surprised and said she lives with him also in his room. The scene then changed and I was confronting my boyfriend in our car. He admitted that the woman was pregnant by him and at that moment Arnold Schwarzenegger drove by with a crazy look on his face (I did not see anything featuring him prior to falling asleep). Then I woke up…I’m so confused!!! What does it mean!?

Lauri:  Cheating dreams run rampant through our minds at night yet they are rarely connected to an actual affair. These dreams are so common because there is typically something our mate is involved in that he or she gives an awful lot of time and attention to, causing us to feel “cheated” out of the time and attention we want. In my research I have found that it is usually work that becomes the third wheel in the relationship. But it could be anything that you feel preoccupies him.

In your cheating dream, your boyfriend has impregnated his mistress. This indicates that in real life, whatever this thing is that your boyfriend is focused on, is now beginning to grow. The other woman also tells you that she lives with him, in his room. Besides you, what would you say your boyfriend “lives with?” Is he “living with” remorse or depression? Anything like that? Or is he so focused on some project that you feel he is practically married to it?

Whatever it is, I believe Arnold Schwarzenegger represents your desire to “Terminate” the issue.

Response from Dreamer: Lauri you are amazing! Everything you said makes perfect sense!! He has been preoccupied with work but spending a lot of his free time with his friends…one friend in particular who I have actually argued with my boyfriend over telling him he spends more time with the guy than me as if it’s his boyfriend! They hang out in the “man cave” in our house which I think is the “I live in his room” part of my dream. I absolutely love the Arnold Schwarzenegger meaning I want to terminate it part…very fitting!


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  1. I had a dream that my husband had a baby with ex. She was his childhood friend and I think they dated in high school but broke it off and remained best friends. At some point though their relationship became something else, he insisted they were just friends and nothing happened but I have always believed otherwise. So they broke of the relationship and cut communication years ago. Anyway, in the dream it was as though she was getting ready to deliver the baby and my husband was with her comforting her through labor and I was waiting somewhere away from them but I could still see them. Then she gave birth and I wanted to go in to see the baby but doctors weren’t allowing me and when I went past the room they were in the door was open and he was naked. I remember being confused asking myself why the hell is he naked. When they where finally out of that room the 3 of them were sitting somewhere and she was crying for some reason and he had his arm around her comforting her while the baby was in between them. I was just standing there watching as he played with the baby obviously enchanted by this baby and I was so upset asking myself why this baby seems so important because we have a child of our own. Then I woke up with this awful feeling, I don’t know why this dream has upset me so much it feels so real. No dream has ever made me feel like this before. Please help I need to know what this dream could possibly mean

  2. I had a dream my husband got his ex girlfriend of 3 years pregnant just as i found out i was pregnant with our second child and he wanted to leave me and i was devastated. In my dream i tried everything possible to change him mind and eventually had an abortion and killed myself right before him while still trying to convenience him to stay. All to no avail. Now then a few weeks ago his mother died his ex girlfriend came down to our house he was hugging her and felt it not necessary to even tell me her was texting or calling her or that they had met and hugged and he hugged her children he raised for 3 years. Also my bet friend and god mother to our child found out yesterday she was pregnant. She has had many issues getting pregnant so it truly is a miracle. I am not pregnant. Im not sure what to make of the dream at all and need a little help to figure it out.

  3. I had a dream i got pregnant and delivered to a preterm baby but not from my husband
    Got pregnant from my long time highschool crush
    But he never knew i got a crush on him
    On my dream as if that was true and i knew im married to my husband and im afraid that moment i delivered a preterm baby from other not from my husband

  4. Okay a few days ago I had a dream about my boyfriend getting another women pregnant, even though me and him don’t have kids yet. My dream was about him getting a phone call by one of his friends telling him that the girl was pregnant ??I couldn’t believe it. Next morning I woke up & I didn’t even want him too touch me. Me and him just moved in together things changed a lot around here. He been told me he wanted a baby but I feel like I’m too young!

  5. I kept having this dream about my partner having a baby…. Only to find out that he really did have a baby on me by another woman…. It’s killing me inside

  6. Ok! So I too had a weird dream about 12 weeks ago. I dreamt that me and the guy I was seeing got pregnant and I had a baby, a baby girl and after the girl was taken to get cleaned up and rest and I was left to rest in my room me and “my guy” have like amazing sex. And then afterwards like clockwork the nurse brings my baby in and the dream went in to being semi normal.
    I told him about this dream and he thought it was funny but weird. The next day he ignores me and doesn’t talk to me for almost a week going onto 2 weeks! One day he messages me and out of the blue says he has a new gf. Him telling me about his new gf was about 10 weeks ago. Today I was curious and went on his profile to see what she looked like and I see her cover photo is a photo of them announcing they are going to have a baby, and by the looks of the ultrasound the size of the baby correlates to how long ago this happened.

    Do you think my dream was some weird way predicting that he was going to have a baby? We weren’t exclusive but we had been seeing each other for almost 5 months. Do you think maybe this dream showed he only wanted me for sex but wanted the baby with another woman? This is so weird, I don’t know what to think!

  7. So a few months ago I found out I was pregnant! My boyfriend was not happy at all, any way I came to the decision to end my pregnancy, but I keep having dreams that my partner is cheating? Last night my dream was he cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant and he was so happy about it? I was heartbroken what does this mean?

  8. I had a dream that my new boyfriend was telling a female that he worked with about a woman being pregnant by him. He was talking about the woman having pregnancy symptons for a week

  9. I had a dream my boyfriend cheated and got another girl pregnant with TWINS! My dream made a big deal about how it wasnt just one baby but two. I was on my boyfriends facebook right before I had fallen asleep and seen this girl “alissa” on his search engine. I believe she was the girl in my dream who he had gotten pregnant. She seemed happy when telling me the news although she knew I was his girlfriend. my boyfriend then came out of no where and was acting nervous not knowing what to do as if he had just gotten caught and was telling me sorry as if he made a mistake.

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