Poll: What Are Your Instant Orgasm Killers?

Imagine you’re on the uphill path to physical bliss, whether traveling alone or with a partner…you’re almost at the edge of that climactic cliff! We want to know what it would take to trip you up, to send you falling backwards down the hill, never to see that potential orgasm again (at least not in this session). A phone call, a phone call from your mother, a pet staring at you, hearing your kids in the other room, your partner suddenly attempting dirty talk…and failing, an uncontrollable thought about some life stress, the doorbell, an ill-timed toot….? We want specifics! Not only the hypothetical (what you imagine would be a definite deal breaker), but also anything that has actually stalled your O-engine in the past.

Leave your orgasm killers in the comments section below!


  1. The worst is when his sister calls and wants us to do something for her!If we ignore it she will call like 20 times in 25 minutes! It seems like she always has to be first. One day I am going to answer the phone with He was about to get off can’t you wait like an hour for us to finish and clean up!

    The second thing is our dogs wanting to go potty! really?? 5 more mins going to hurt you guys?

  2. My boyfriend and I live far away, so when we get excited, we masturbate over Skype to each other. But he always says that he doesn’t want to come until I do. When he says stuff like that, my mind automatically goes into this sort of frenzy and I start rushing things, trying to come as soon as I can so he doesn’t have to wait. Of course, that only makes it worse, and I hate it when he starts to get annoyed with me, but still doesn’t want to come until I do. It makes me feel like such a bad girlfriend and when I do come I usually have taken so long that he has somewhere else to be and doesn’t have time to come himself. Rushing myself and him getting annoyed when I can’t come = major orgasm killer.

  3. I get nervous if I feel my man is waiting for me to orgasm- and therefore getting tired of having sex, like after he’s come. I But if the sex has been good, the feeling of his orgasm will send me off. Convenient. 🙂
    Oh- also, if it seems like he doesn’t care whether or not I cum. It’s a two way deal, Mr!

  4. I am a very self-conscious person so I have to have sex with someone quite a few times before orgasm is even an option for me. And I’ll tell them flat out and if they can’t be as lighthearted about it as I am, I tend to lose interest.

  5. im very easily distracted when im trying to orgasm. if he changes anything he’s doing i loose it a bit. also when i think he’s going to orgasm b4 me, which used to happen often. but im engaged so i talked to him about it n now its a lot better. if u plan on having sex with someone repeatedly i suggest telling them, probably subtly at 1st, that something needs to b changed

  6. umm..this one time i was hooking up with my ex, trying to rekindle things and he made a comment about my body in which i could tell he was comparing me to whom he had been with since out split. yeah..i was done after that.

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