We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.
I’ve been a serial monogamist all my life — in high school, and all throughout college. Now I find myself in my mid-20s, newly single, in a new city for a new job, with nothing like school to help me meet new people, except of course for work (and I don’t really want to s@#% where I eat). I’m new to Tinder. Can you tell me if it’s really just for hooking up or if people are looking for real relationships on it? Like, if someone looked interesting and I met up with them, would they expect me to be open to casual sex that night? If it’s the latter, then which online dating site is the best to use if I’m looking for a real relationship?
— Single White Female