Your Call: Is It Normal Not to Want Sex?

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.

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Dear Em & Lo,

Almost one year ago I had sex for the first time. Since then I haven’t had the urge at all, is this normal? No matter how hot a guy is I just don’t care make conversation (it also doesn’t help that I’m an introvert who is terrible conversing with the opposite sex anyway). Do you have any advice?

— Meh.

What advice do you have for Meh? Leave it in the comments section below.




  1. You can’t decide that after one sex partner in one year of sexual activity. It’s way too soon to give up.

  2. I think you are asking the wrong question. The question should never be “Am I normal?”. The question should be “Are you happy the way you are?”.

    I don’t care if you are into girls or into guys. I don’t care if both sexes turn you on or neither do. If you are happy with your life then there is no reason for you to change.

    Only if you are unhappy should you change and don’t let “normal” affect your happiness because if we were all normal the world would be a really boring place.

    Find what makes you happy.

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