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Well, I absolutely LOVE older men. I have never been with a guy who wasn’t older then me. Mostly because I learn so much from them. Now the biggest age gap relationship I ever had, was 45 years. Which was one of my most successful and happiest relationships. Anyway, right now I’m in one with a guy who is 43 years older. And we’ve been dating close to a month, I have learned sooooo much from this one, but lately, he won’t “touch” me. He blames it on us being too busy/tired, with my career as well as his (he’s legally retired, but hasn’t stopped running the business and won’t) keeping us tied up… I do admit busy/tired is a true statement, but am I being to harsh, by wanting him to make it happen anyway? Or what’s truly going on?
— Miss May