Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How common are multiple orgasms among men?”
Straight Single Guy (Colin Adamo): This is one of those things that really mellow, grey-ponytailed guys that meditate daily, do kegels constantly, and have been practicing tantra since the late ’70s tell you is possible but that the majority of men have not experienced and don’t expect to any time this millennium. The idea of multiple orgasms reminds me of a more realistic fantasy of making auto-fellatio possible through years of practice like in the classic SNL skit with Will Farrell. I know it’s possible. And sure it sounds great. But who wants to put in all the hard work to get there?
Gay Committed Guy (Terence): I believe the nature of men is predisposed to multiple orgasms. By multiple I mean two. More than two is pushing it, but most men I’ve “known” have had a pretty good track record for multiples. Then again, by multiple are we talking within an hour or within a day? If you’re talking about a whole day’s worth, well then you’re looking at three to five orgasms easily — with diminishing returns of course.
Straight Married Guy (Matt): As in multiple orgasms in one night, or in one go? ‘Cause if it’s the former, you can probably start at around four to five orgasms a night as a physical possibility at age 18 (not something that happens very often in practice, mind you). From there it’s pretty much a straight diagonal line to zero times per night at age 90 or whatever. I’d say monogamy also exerts downward pressure on this line. Not to say that this is a bad thing; at 38, I’m frankly less than enthusiastic about the idea of spending enough time to bring about a second orgasm. One is plenty, thanks. As for multiple orgasms in one shot, I’ve never, ever heard of this happening — not to me or anyone else I know. Even if this were possible, due to each successive orgasm for men being less intense, I’d say again: one is plenty, thanks.
Our “guys” are a rotating group of contributors. Colin Adamo is an undergrad at Yale University where he directs the biennial Sex Week at Yale; Terence is an American living in Sydney; Matt is a little shy. To ask the guys your own question, click here.
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DJ: I totally believe you. My boyfriend does the same. He can orgasm 10-20 times in a session and we have love making sessions a few times a day. I am 47 and he is 45. and to Johnny: you are rude. It’s all about control. and yes, it can happen. Trust me. Please ask your doctor, as I am sure he can back it up.
DJ, thanks for the post!!
I got my man off 5 times in less than 2 minutes last night. He was orgasm say go again, orgaasm go again. He says I earned the lifetime acheievement award. He is still talking about it lol. He is 43 too. Any man ever experience this?
I have personally had 16-20 orgasms at one time (lost count) while having sex with my wife and admiring photos of the mighty Ulisses Jr, I think it was he that actually caused this or the fact that my wife was admiring his body as well. I am straight but for some reason this mans body hardens me like a rock and I cant stop the cum from pumping out. Multiples are the best feeling ever!
My husband climaxes — convulses, the whole sha-bang — then he is immediately hard again. He can usually go back to back 2 twice within less than a minute; sometimes just a few seconds, and sometimes immediately! The most he’s ever done it back to back is 3 times though. He does say that they aren’t as intense as the first. But both times he ejaculates.
My bf has orgasmed and came 16 times in a row. But his average is maybe 5 to 7 times. We have to work hard for the 16 but it is possible..
I am 47 and my husband is 44. Unbelievably, my husband can get erect right after an orgasm! His “rest” period is only a minute or two. There have been weekends where we have had sex easily 3 times in a row!
He says it’s a matter of concentration, believing in his ability, his extreme attraction for me, my extreme attraction to him.
So, who knows what’s possible.
Im abstinent, so Im a virgin, but Im a male and I can say multiple orgasms are definitely possible.
My record in one session is 21, and back when I took masturbating seriously, I was averaging around 8-10 a session before I got bored and went to bed.
People might not believe me, but I can and will assure you it’s true.
Reply if you feel like discussing.
So there’s the ejaculation part. But the orgasm part CAN be separate. For me Squeezing the PC muscles at exactly the right time is key. Don’t let the ejaculate get too far during arrousal or plateau or you’ll lose your little guys during the O. During the O timing is everything. Steer clear of outside influences (besides partner or visual aids) and practice practice practice. Take it slow.
My lover says i great, i can usaly get 10 orgasmins over a few hours, i use lots of vitimens whch make my balls feel full all the time, could it be i am a large guy, 7.5 inch still going strong at 50
It’s definitely possible. My boyfriend (soon to be fiancé) and I were just talking on the phone and he orgasmed 5 times in a row in the span of an hour, so it’s definitely possible, just very hard to come by. I was really impressed. 😉
I’m a guy, 26, and sometimes have a second orgasm immediately after my first. I often notice that this happens a lot after a period of forced abstinance (i.e. staying with friends in close proximity camping etc where you cant, uh, get relief).
Its pretty much as the other guy described after the first you just keep going pretty hard and feel it building up after a few seconds. Neither orgasm is ever earth shattering and i’ve only ever managed it solo not during sex.
Oh yes it is true! My husband had 4 orgasms in less than 25 seconds!! The male reproductive system was my favorite in nursing school….:>
My boyfriend actually ejaculated 5 times today. And actually ejaculated, i would know. I had no choice but to swallow.. he’s almost 21, and after the first one we relocated to our bedroom, I’m almost 20 by the way. He tried to get me to orgasm. But i had a lot on my mind and I was focusing more on pleasing him. The 2-5th times were about 2-3 minutes apart. Let me tell you. He was connnfuuused! He says he’s only ever had one. And he’s been with a good amount of other partners. Didn’t do anything special to achive this. He was my first everything so I’m not highly experienced. But we’ve gone 3 hours non-stop. And it’s very satisfying.
Wow, I just experienced my first double through masturbation. male, 23 yo.
Not sure if I could succeed with my partner..
No refractory time in between, both ejaculatory. For the first one I just let myself go and relaxed as best as I could. After I finished ejaculating and the sensation was gone already I felt like there was still something left, still hard, still aroused… in about 5 seconds later of full speed masturbation – SECOND. Not entirely sure which of them felt better though, ~10 seconds apart, can’t really tell, mind was blown.
I’ve never felt so good in my entire life! It’s like my entire world changed, got straight out of my depression.. lol this is amazing!
P.S. Have double orgasm -> google it 10 minutes later