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Tag Archive | "Fantasy"
Comment of the Week: Fantasizing Is Human. Get Over It.
photo by cogdogblog I feel the same way about the guys that hold this double standard [when a guy looks at other women but gets jealous if his girlfriend ogles men] as the girls who read romance novels and watch chick flick marathons and freak out when their guy uses porn to masturbate. It all boils [...]
Continue reading...How to Share a Fantasy in Three Easy(ish) Steps
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
photo by smell_of_colours Sharing a fantasy with a partner can be a cheap and easy way to foster intimacy, build trust, and kink things up. But it takes a lot of courage to do. What if you think yours is too mundane to put into words (remember Meg Ryan’s faceless stranger fantasy in When Harry Met [...]
Continue reading...Wise Guys: Do Men Imagine Sex with Every Woman?
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
photo by voxefx Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Does every guy see a woman and immediately assess whether or not he’d want to have sex with her? And if he would want to have sex with her, does that mean she automatically becomes a part of his masturbatory [...]
Continue reading...Truth or Dare for Grownups — Really Lazy Grownups
Friday, November 6, 2009
“Truth or Dare” is available at GoodVibes.com There’s a reason why Truth or Dare is mostly played by high school kids — because they’re the only ones who are willing to spend hours coming up with creative truths or dares to get their peers more naked, either figuratively or literally. After a hard day at work [...]
Continue reading...Dear Em & Lo: Do My Kinky Fantasies Need Therapy?
Friday, October 9, 2009
photo by Dale Gillard Dear Em & Lo, I have this really awesome, sensitive, caring, sweet, good-in-bed, blah blah blah boyfriend — I wouldn’t leave him for the world. I also have wild fantasies about being tied up, demeaned, beaten . . . you get the idea. Is this a problem? Maybe fantasies are not supposed to [...]
Continue reading...Ladies-Only Poll: Who Do You Think About During Self-Love?
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Ladies, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(trends) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
Continue reading...Men-Only Poll: Who Do You Think About During Self-Love?
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Men, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(online surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
Continue reading...Comment of the Week: Four Thoughts on Fantasizing
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
1) I fantasize about other women all the time. All The Time. I’m in a wonderful, committed relationship with a gorgeous woman. I’m able to have my fantasies, and tell her about them — which means that they become part of our relationship. Something that brings us together, rather than something that drives us apart. [...]
Continue reading...Your Call: Do His Fantasies Mean He’ll Cheat?
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
photo by hyperscholar Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 23-year-old woman who has been in a relationship with my partner for over a year and a half. The sex is good, but I recently found out my partner fantasizes about other women he has seen whilst he has been out with me, or out on his own. [...]
Continue reading...Your Call: Should You Make a Move on Your Roommate, Who’s Also Your Best Friend’s Sister?
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
photo by adactio Dear Em & Lo, My issue is that I fantasize about sleeping with my best friend’s sister — I have for several years now. I feel I’m a little obsessed about her. She has a boyfriend. The worst part: we share a flat together. Fortunately, she’s out a lot, and when she is around [...]
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