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“15 Ways to Make the Most of Your Small Peen in Bed”

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1. My first boyfriend was kinda small but I didn’t realize it until my 2nd boyfriend. He was huge and it did hurt at first but soon it was awesome. As someone else here said there is a strong correlation between small penises and women not having orgasms. We need big ones to get the job done and it would be nice if men could shut up and accept this. I avoid small ones like the plague at this point. A few years ago I went to this guys place after a few dates and we’re going to have sex until I saw his penis. It was 5 inches. I know this because my first bf was 5 and this guy was about the same size. I got up and left. He was pretty upset, and called me a bitch for being shallow. I said no I just don’t sleep with little boys. In hindsight it was a little mean to be that direct but I was pissed, he was tall and really cute and I was expecting a lot more than what he had and I knew it would be lousy sex after I saw it.

   I just can’t see a guy as a man if he has a small penis. It’s such a turn off, especially in the heat of the moment and you’re fired up. My current boyfriend of 3 years actually has the biggest one I’ve ever been with. He’s a little over 8 inches and about the girth of my forearm and the sex has been amazing since day one. I have pictures of it on my phone that I look at often because it really is beautiful. I can orgasm almost instantly with him, it feels too good to settle for a small one ever again. If this reality makes men feel bad I don’t care, it’s not my problem. Maybe if men would stop wasting time complaining and playing video games and man up, their penises would man up as well and grow to a respectable size that’s useful to us. Women shouldn’t deny themselves great sex just to keep men from being butt hurt. An added bonus is that any future sons I may have will be just like their daddy and make some girl very happy one day. I would feel bad bringing a boy into the world whose father was lacking in that area. Not only will he be stuck living with it but any girls he is intimate with will be robbed of what they need and I know how much that sucks from a woman’s perspective. I mean that’s why women have their sons circumcised. It just looks better without the nasty foreskin. I don’t think i’ts unreasonable to ensure that he is also of adequate size one day. Men with small penises seem pretty miserable from what I can see and they wouldn’t be if their father had been well endowed.

   1. Wow, there are so many problems with Kristen’s comment, we don’t even know where to begin.

      1. I don’t understand. What’s wrong with having standards? What’s wrong with liking large penises?

         1. There’s nothing wrong at all with having preferences, but the way you describe getting up and walking out on someone because of those preferences is completely lacking in empathy and kindness.

            I’m sure there’s something about you physically that’s just shy of perfect. Maybe it’s something you don’t like about your body, something that’s not apparent until you’re naked. Now, imagine if, upon seeing that particular feature of yours, a potential lover just got up and left. How would you feel? Pretty terrible, right? How is it that you’re unaware that you’ve made another person feel that way? It’s nothing to do with your preferences, it’s your behavior.

            Instead of worrying about how your kid might grow up with “lacking” genitalia, maybe you should worry instead how the poor kid will grow up seeing his mom act with utter disregard for other human beings.

            1. Exactly what Geoff said!

            2. So I was supposed to have boring sex with his tiny penis as a show of empathy and kindness? Sorry but fuck that. I admit my reaction was blunt but he pissed me off and I did him a favor by not allowing him to waste his time developing feelings for a woman he could never satisfy. It’s okay people, he lived.

               Sure there are things about my body that could use improvement. I’d like to loose 5 pounds or so but I get hit on a lot so I’m pretty sure no guy would get up and leave a sexual encounter. I would feel terrible if it happened to me but women are much more affected by rejection. Men don’t really feel emotion that much and are used to rejection anyway so I didn’t think it was a big deal that I left that night. What ever happened to take it like a man? If I made him feel terrible, I just don’t really care. My sexual satisfaction is more important to me than some guys ego. Men just don’t understand how much a small penis kills the mood when you are used to having big ones. I do feel bad for men with this curse but I feel worse for the women that are with them.

               And my future kids will grow up seeing their mom treat other human beings as they deserve to be treated, good or bad. What you call utter disregard, I call being realistic. My son will learn to respect and cherish women and my daughter will learn that having high standards for men is the best way to have a fulfilling relationship. Too many girls end up with losers that don’t work or handle responsibilities.

            3. Well as a guy with a small penis I’d admire your honesty. If you’re 100% sure that a big penis is what you need then this guy won’t be able to satisfy you. Best he knows that upfront.

            4. Let us address a few particular points in your two comments. While we admit our tone here may sound slightly antagonistic (due to the fact that we’re frankly quite baffled by your seeming lack of compassion and understanding), we offer this feedback in the genuine hopes that you’ll take a moment to do some serious soul searching here and question whether your approach is the best way to make the world a kinder, more just place:

               “As someone else here said there is a strong correlation between small penises and women not having orgasms. We need big ones to get the job done and it would be nice if men could shut up and accept this.” — There’s actually a strong correlation between INTERCOURSE and women NOT having orgasms. The kind of stimulation that many women need to climax cannot be obtained with intercourse alone, no matter what the size — that may not be the case for you, but it is for plenty of women. Perhaps due to the necessity of intercourse for most reproduction or to the patriarchal idolatry of the penis, we as a society have put intercourse on the highest pedestal of sexual expression, even though it’s not always the best sex act to get the job done for women. Again, you know what YOU like, but please don’t presume to speak for all women when many of them will take agile fingers or a deft tongue over a jackhammering dick any day to reach their happy place. (Also, it’s not polite to tell people to “shut up.”)

               “Maybe if men would stop wasting time complaining and playing video games and man up, their penises would man up as well and grow to a respectable size that’s useful to us.” — You can’t be serious. If you are, your statement is an indictment of the mediocre science and sex education American kids receive in schools these days. Video game-playing has no effect on penis size development — it’s mostly genetically determined, with a few environmental factors like fetal hormone exposure or nutrition possibly playing a factor.

               “Any future sons I may have will be just like their daddy and make some girl very happy one day.” — You can’t determine what genes your future son will get from his father and what genes he’ll get from you. Who knows, maybe your own father had a penis you wouldn’t approve of and you’ll pass THAT onto your kid!

               “That’s why women have their sons circumcised. It just looks better without the nasty foreskin.” — After steadily declining for decades, the rate of circumcision reached an all time low of 55% in the U.S. in 2007. So only about half of the population has the procedure done nowadays — and they often do so either to honor religious traditions, or out of a long-standing, antiquated habit created in the first half of the last century by a misguided combination of fear of masturbation (and sexuality in general), attempts to staunch the spread of STDs, and the medicalization of childbirth. There’s nothing inherently nasty about foreskin — you’ve just been culturally brainwashed to see it that way.

               “Men with small penises seem pretty miserable from what I can see.” — To use a fun cinematic cliche: Because of people like you, Kristen; because of people like you.

               “My reaction was blunt” — As was stated before, you’re entitled to “like big penises”; the problem here is HOW you assert that preference. There is a way to be true to yourself AND kind. You wielded your preference like a weapon, undoubtedly causing emotional blunt force trauma (hence him calling you a bitch, which admittedly wasn’t very nice either).

               “He pissed me off” — Did he tell you he had a huge dick and you felt lied to? Or was it simply the fact that he dared to find you attractive and expressed interest in you with equipment that just happened to not meet your personal standards? We’re guessing it was the latter. In which case, how can you be mad at and offended by something HE HAS ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL OVER? Are men with smaller penises automatically undeserving of love? Are women who are flat chested not real women? Should children who are born with birth defects automatically be put up for adoption? Anger over physical attributes determined by DNA is completely misplaced.

               “I would feel terrible if it happened to me” — You are right on the cusp of empathy here, but refuse to take the last step. If you can appreciate how terrible YOU would feel, why can you not appreciate how terrible you surely made THIS FELLOW HUMAN BEING feel?

               “Men don’t really feel emotion” — This is a popular lie peddled to us by old-fashioned traditionalists who insist on segregating the population into two distinct and separate boxes, who’ve fallen for the idea that Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus. But as human beings, men and women have many more similarities than they do differences. Denying men ownership of their intrinsic emotionality does them a disservice that has vast negative consequences for society, mostly in the forms of violence and sexism. Please watch “The Mask You Live In” on Netflix for more on this topic.

               “Take it like a man” — The three most destructive words to use when raising boys: “Be a man.” See again “The Mask You Live In.”

               “If I made him feel terrible, I just don’t really care.” — Here’s where you reveal your total lack of empathy and compassion. No one would suggest you should sleep with someone you didn’t want to, or sleep with someone out of pity. Most decent people would, however, agree that you can and should care about other people’s feelings — it’s what makes a society civilized. Surely you’ve heard of Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. And what about the idea of letting someone down gently?

               “[I] treat other human beings as they deserve to be treated, good or bad.” — Again, why is a physical attribute one had/has no control over WORTHY of such derision, scorn, and — judging from your tone — hatred? Did the cosmos willfully conspire against you in this man’s mother’s womb during embryonic organ development just to create a penis that would someday offend Kristen’s particular aesthetic sensibilities? If he insulted you verbally, treated you poorly, or was offensive in some way (like being racist or sexist), then by all means, he deserved to be walked out on in your preferred manner. But how you treated him for the “crime” of being born that way was cruel and unusual punishment.

               “Too many girls end up with losers that don’t work or handle responsibilities.” — What does one’s work ethic have to do with an in-born physical trait? It’s almost as if you think this man, by some character flaw, WILLED himself to have a penis smaller than you would like.

               It’s worth repeating: You can have sexual preferences without callously hurting people’s feelings. You can have sexual preferences without projecting them onto your entire gender. You can have sexual preferences without denying science.

            5. Wow, you two are trying really hard to act like you are morally superior here. You have intentionally misinterpreted my words and made some ridiculous logical leaps. Where do I start? This correlation between intercourse and no orgasms you mentioned is due to most men having small penises. It’s that simple. You can deny that if you must and sure there are some women that may genuinely be not able to take a large one but they are a minority. You can quote studies that support your assertion and I can quote studies that support mine so you also cannot speak for all women here any more than I can. Studies that support the notion that small penises are adequate are probably done by men that want to make us deny what we like. They cannot speak for us. You are dead wrong that most women cannot orgasm from intercourse. Most just don’t because they can’t feel their partner enough or can’t relax enough to enjoy sex anyway. The deepest parts of the vagina can create amazing sensations if the guy can reach and this is also backed by science. There is a big difference between clitoral orgasms and vaginal. Additionally the longer shaft can take longer strokes in each direction and this creates much more stimulation that a smaller one would.

               The reason we put intercourse on a pedestal is because it’s the best sexual interaction there is. Oral and fingers are good but nothing compares to the feeling of your partner’s entire body against yours while he is inside you. We’ve all encountered men with small ones and told friends and had a laugh mocking those guys. Good luck finding a woman that has not made fun of a small penis and good luck finding a woman that has ever made fun of a large one, even she didn’t come. And who said anything about getting jackhammered? I never said that. That sounds violent. On the other hand, getting filled all the way up and stretched a little with gentle or somewhat hard thrusts is heavenly.

               Of course I didn’t mean video games cause small penises. My point was that if boys would be active and stop sitting on their asses all day, their hormones would be where they are supposed to and they would develop properly instead of having rolls of fat, man boobs and undergrown penises when they reach adulthood.

               “You can’t determine what genes your future son will get from his father and what genes he’ll get from you.” Maybe not every gene but definitely most of them. So if daddy is white, chances are jr will be too. If daddy is tall, chances are jr will be too. If daddy is hung, chances are jr will be too. pretty simple. Also, this has nothing to do with my father and you had no right even mentioning him here, so yeah you are being quite antagonistic and unprofessional.

               “There’s nothing inherently nasty about foreskin — you’ve just been culturally brainwashed to see it that way.”

               So now you’re telling me that the bad experiences that I had with uncut dicks is being brainwashed? What’s next, women that have been raped are just brainwashed that it’s bad? Don’t tell me that a wet smelly, floppy foreskin gross looking dick is something I have no right to say is nasty. Maybe you have been brainwashed to think they are attractive. Any sons of mine are getting cut. I’m not going anywhere near foreskin ever again.

               “the problem here is HOW you assert that preference. There is a way to be true to yourself AND kind.”

               Being kind is overrated. Sometimes the cold hard truth needs to be heard.

               “In which case, how can you be mad at and offended by something HE HAS ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL OVER? Are men with smaller penises automatically undeserving of love? Are women who are flat chested not real women? Should children who are born with birth defects automatically be put up for adoption?”

               It’s not about whether he had control over it, it’s about me not liking what he has. Yes I was mad that he did not have what I was expecting because that ruined my night. I may have been harsh but I left. I didn’t attack him or tell him to kill himself. You’re acting like I committed a murder here. All I did was say it’s too small and leave. Not saying men with small penises are undeserving of love but life isn’t fair. It’s not about what anyone deserves, it’s about accepting the cards you have been dealt. If a man has a small one, he has to accept that his love isn’t enough and women need good sex with it. How he deals with that dilemma is his problem. Women having small breasts is irrelevant. Breasts aren’t needed to enjoy intercourse. A decent dick is needed though. Children born with defects are treated if possible, right? So we should treat men with small penises, I’m all for it. Amazing that we can put a heart in another person’s body but still can’t make penises grow.

               “why can you not appreciate how terrible you surely made THIS FELLOW HUMAN BEING feel?”

               Like I said, I was pissed and tipsy. If I made him feel terrible, I don’t give a shit. I don’t believe women should be concerned about men’s fragile emotions. They should grow some balls and handle their shit.

               “Denying men ownership of their intrinsic emotionality does them a disservice that has vast negative consequences for society, mostly in the forms of violence and sexism”

               Oh ladies, it also allows society to exist. If men were emotional, they wouldn’t build shit that we need or fight to keep us safe. They are supposed to be tough, not emotional. Not to mention that seeing a man cry is a huge turnoff, ugh. And violence and sexism has nothing to do with men denying emotions. They are violent and sexist because they are MEN. By the way, good job showing how much you care about their personal well being by only considering how their buried emotions affect society and women and not, oh I don’t know, the men themselves? Their mental health, interpersonal relationships, confidence? See, even you don’t care about them as much as you claim to and you criticize me for not caring, lol.

               “But how you treated him for the “crime” of being born that way was cruel and unusual punishment.”

               WOW!! Cruel and unusual punishment?! Are you kidding me? A dismissive comment is not cruelty, it’s just a comment. I didn’t waterboard the guy, relax please.

               “Too many girls end up with losers that don’t work or handle responsibilities.” — What does one’s work ethic have to do with an in-born physical trait? It’s almost as if you think this man, by some character flaw, WILLED himself to have a penis smaller than you would like.”

               Lol I NEVER even said that a small penis is related to work ethic at all. I was telling whoever asked how I would raise my girls to have high standards in general and not settle for losers and you know this if you read everything. Nice try at twisting my words, again!

               “You can have sexual preferences without projecting them onto your entire gender. You can have sexual preferences without denying science.”

               I could say the same thing to you. You are projecting your admiration of small penises onto our gender and are also denying science. As I said, you can focus on the science that supports your position all you want. There is an equal amount of science that supports mine. And as a side note, fuck science anyway. It doesn’t have all the answers, especially when it comes to female sexuality. They still can’t even agree whether or not a g spot exists.

               Anyway, bigger equals more friction which equals more stimulation which equals much greater chance of orgasms and you can find information confirming this. It’s not that hard to understand. There is a reason why tips for accommodating small penises revolve around ways of making it feel BIGGER. There wouldn’t be a need for such tips if it didn’t matter. Women wouldn’t ridicule them if it didn’t matter. Don’t act like you haven’t, or at least have friends that haven’t laughed at small penises. We all do. No woman brags about her man having a small one. Most brag at some point if he is hung. You can keep denying all of these facts if it fits your worldview but you know just as I do that women in general associate a large penis with greater attractiveness sexual pleasure. The reason that articles like this get the most attention is because most men and some women apparently, are desperate to hear from anyone that small penises are just as good as big ones. The conversation never dies because there will always be hordes of men with this issue hoping that they measure up at least to some women.

               I’LL SAY IT AGAIN, LADIES:
               BIG PENISES ARE BETTER THAN SMALL ONES.

            6. Kristen: I’m a bi male, 7 inches, very sexual. I have a vast knowledge of female sexual anatomy and I must admit I love your raw candor. I’m a size queen myself. My lover is adorned with an amazing 9″ black rod capable of bringing ME to multiple “female” orgasms. Anything under 7.5″ and I Feel the same way as you. My man calls the shots, but I will say this….if he ever allowed a threesome with you I would delightfully work my mouth on your clitoris and other womanly parts while you’re are being properly bred. Honest, confident, strong, women like you are a minority. I find it incredibly sexy how confidently you dictate “what you prefer.” Being stretched and filled, (while being treated rough) is what does it for me too. Oh, and I will add as a bi male myself who loves pussy. 5 inches? 4’7″ need hung guys that won’t cause internal damage to also. You would make a welcome addition to a threeway with me and my guy….assuming you are hot, shaved/waxed and not overweight. I love honesty.

            7. Hun, What makes you assume you even fit my standards or that I want anything to do with you? Lol, you talk as if I should be thrilled that you are offering me sex. While I appreciate the compliment for my honesty, I’ll pass on the threeway. I don’t share sexual partners and I have never in the past nor will I ever have sex with a black guy.

               I do not wax my pubes. I keep it neatly trimmed but I still have my bush. I’m not enduring the pain of waxing for anyone. Did it once, never again. Any man that is repulsed by a little pubic hair, even if it’s neat, needs to grow up. Dumbest trend I’v ever seen.

            8. Girl, you need to chill. It is obvious you are either a troll, or a girl who was made to feel not-so-pretty by a guy…maybe dumped,…So now you are attacking him by attacking all guys on here, in a sad little attempt to feel better about yourself. It’s so incredibly sad and pathetic to watch this thread here. Grow up, little immature Kristen. Seriously, act like an adult.

            9. Funny how people have to call you a troll for being honest. I’m not attacking guys at all, I’m stating my preference and defending against this leftist nonsense criticism for having preferences. I’m not angry at being dumped, I’ve never been dumped actually so it’s certainly not causing some need to feel better about myself, I don’t have those issues. And as far as I’m concerned I am acting like an adult, I haven’t attacked anyone here, on the contrary I’ve been attacked for not pandering to some guys ego and having an unpopular opinion. I’ve stated my position as clearly as just about anyone can. I have no shame in how I feel. I can see that my input isn’t wanted here so whatever I’m out of here.

            10. You nasty and probably stretched out

            11. Like throwing a tennis ball down a hallway! Haha 🙂

            12. Kristen, do us and all the people in your life a favor, especially guys you date.

                Look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder and BorderLine Personality Disorder.

                Both very serious mental illnesses, and I suspect you suffer from both.

                One of the signs is lack of empathy… I don’t think you have an ounce of empathy in your being. Another sign is “it’s all about you”.

                You need serious mental health help.

            13. This lady has demonstrated her vast retardation to a staggering degree. Lol genetics might determine your kids trading their brain power for dick size.

            14. She just sounds like welfare trash.

            15. As a girl myself I find this Kristen lady to amusing her opening statement ” Where do I start? This correlation between intercourse and no orgasms you mentioned is due to most men having small penises. It’s that simple.” Does this make any sense on an evolutionary perspective…no most men have an average sized penis, because the average dictates the majority how is anyone this stupid?

            16. Bustdown

            17. size? when you say small, it is normal… big is big, but small is smaller than normal, got help a actual small guy for thinking he may be able to have sex you. we guys would call you a 2X4 girl anyway, know what that means? well unlike you i’m not mean enough to say…

            18. Kristen: “Maybe if men would stop wasting time complaining and playing video games and man up, their penises would man up as well and grow to a respectable size that’s useful to us. Women shouldn’t deny themselves great sex just to keep men from being butt hurt. An added bonus is that any future sons I may have will be just like their daddy and make some girl very happy one day.”

                Except there’s a conflict called sexual dimorphism in terms of what gets inherited by future generations. Example: a sexually desirable trait in a female is a narrow jaw, a sexually desirable trait in a male is a broad jaw. So how to reconcile this? Will the jaws of females eventually become massive, or will the jaws of males eventually become more narrow?

                Yes, sexual selection will eventually increase penis size, and has done that, since humans have the largest penis of any primate. But why is it you’re exempt from this scheme of genetic cleansing? Unless you have a giant clit, maybe you should question what genes you’re passing on to your future sons.

                An irony is that despite being their mother, if your sons do have small penises you’ll see them as fundamentally worthless.

            19. Kristen again: “Of course I didn’t mean video games cause small penises. My point was that if boys would be active and stop sitting on their asses all day, their hormones would be where they are supposed to and they would develop properly instead of having rolls of fat, man boobs and undergrown penises when they reach adulthood. ”

                The adult penis size is usually reached in early puberty, so the hormone levels of boys during puberty is unlikely to have much impact on the growth of their penises by the time they “read adulthood.”

                On the other hand, a very significant impact on penis size, and also penis deformation, is the mother’s habits during pregnancy. Xenoestrogens like BPA, and BPA alternatives, which are often worse, aren’t detoxified by the body. So even though their impact is less than true estrogen, the mother’s body doesn’t get rid of them, and this impacts on penile development in the foetus. It is proven to be linked in penis defects.

                So, in terms of proper penis formation, the onus falls on the mother, not on boys playing video games. Be very, very careful to limit use of plastic packaging and processed foods during pregnancy, or you’ll have to put your sons up for adoption.

                And: ““You can’t determine what genes your future son will get from his father and what genes he’ll get from you.” Maybe not every gene but definitely most of them. So if daddy is white, chances are jr will be too. If daddy is tall, chances are jr will be too. If daddy is hung, chances are jr will be too. pretty simple.”

                Not even sure how to address this. Really? Two white parents would produce a white offspring?

            20. Em&Lo, that was remarkably well put! Kristen, I’m sorry but you are a complete tool. You could even pretend to be as big of an idiot that you actually are. I have dated a nutjob like you in my college fraternity years, but now I stay the hell away from women with borderline personality disorder as you undoubtedly have.

   2. From the sounds of it a lot of men should turn you away at the gate on account of how loose you sound. My penis is 6.5 inches not particularly big or small, but your puss gives the impression of an overpass for a semi. If more men had the same attitude a lot of women who didn’t do kegels would be turned away on account of tightness. What an idiotic thought process for picking someone you love you are not a bitch or a size queen more of a moron actually.

   3. She thinks video games determine penis size lmao! Whoa is it a crazy notion that kids I knew in school played video games and worked out all in the same day? She probably is a trump supporter lol

   4. I have had sex with guys with monster 9″ cocks and, sex with guys around 5 inches more often then not the smaller guy is self conscious about it, and makes up for it with working harder better foreplay oral, and more dynamic sex with their body. Some big guys are like I’m big what else do you want so not to mention the g-spot is like 2 inches in. If your boyfriend is like 6-7 you in the golden ratio, but seriously if you dump a guy who is near these parameters when he is great at everything else that makes you happy then you are pretty dumb Kristen.

   5. I have e a very big penis. But I must say you handled that very poorly. Evey guy is self conscious about their penis at some time or another. How would you feel if a guy walked out on you complaining about the stench and sour taste of your vagina? People have feelings.

   6. Your inability to empathize with another human being is remarkable and disheartening. Keep in mind, I am *not* suggesting that you’re in any way obligated to have sex with a partner to whom you’re not attracted, and yes, it’s okay that that attraction is hampered by a distinct lack of penis size. I don’t think anyone here is suggesting so much. However, your comment implies that you experience anger towards a man for not living up to a physical standard that is completely out of his control, and that this anger justifies your assault on his feelings and sense of self. This is, of course, tantamount to me, upon realizing your breasts or vaginal tightness is not up to my standards, making fun of you for it and calling your right to love and compassionate treatment into question. Note, there’s nothing wrong with rejecting someone for a physical attribute you feels makes them sexually incompatible with yourself, it’s how you treat them. You’re apparent inability to acknowledge this very basic point convinces me of one of two things: you’re a troll, or a individual lacking anything vaguely resembling the basic decency and kindness that upholds society. Perhaps most obvious is you cliché justification that you’re simply being “brutally honest.” Someone who is honest would, indeed, admit to the facts: that a small penis doesn’t satisfy them. But to subsequently deride the owners of small penises as lesser individuals who are somehow at fault is no longer honesty, you’re simply being mean. Thus, I feel that you are a sad, deplorable human being.

   7. What are you, like 18 years old? You come off sounding like a spoiled brat. Bet you wear padded bras, and wear make up. And I’ll bet when that all comes off, most guys are dissapointed with what they see. If not, they certainly will be when you open your mouth to speak.

      And… you were more than a little mean.

      Would you be happy with a post from a man who said he would only have sex with women with certain sized breasts? And if he thought you have 34C’s until you took the padded bra off and saw your 32AA’s, would you be offended if he said, sorry, I hate tiny boobs, got up and left.

      How would that make you feel? Hey guys have preferences too, we’re just not obnoxious immature assholes about it.

   8. Actually my father and brothers are all built like stallions, even my son nephews, and I have a small one.

2. I am a truck driver. I have a very small small penis( 3 inches hard) . A secretary at work and I became friends. She would tell us about how big her bf was. Even showed me a picture. He has a ten incher.
   I joked about my size. She became fascinated with how small my penis is. One night after work we went out and had drinks. Things led to another and we ended up at a hotel. When we got naked she asked me to stand up and wanted to take a really good look at me. She giggled and said I have a very cute penis. We ended up making love for 45 minutes to an hour. I paid a lot of attention to her. She loved it and when we left the hotel she looked at me and told me she had a great time and really enjoyed herself then I changed her mind on being a size queen. We ended up having an affair for about 10 months.

3. Why were my comments deleted?

4. I second this
   As a guy with a small penis it’s good to hear that kind of honesty. I can totally understand that some women would need a decent size and wouldn’t want to, as you say, settle for less.
   Best way for the man and the woman is for the woman to say that, it seems some women think it’s a bad thing and they have to settle and/or not offend the guy.
   Honesty works much better

5. Like almost every article about this, it includes an insulting picture that makes a joke of the subject and then tries to say that size doesn’t matter, while actually saying that size doesn’t matter, as long as at least average.

6. Dear Em & Lo,
   I do not agree with you. I am a mature woman whom has dated many men in my lifetime. If a man has a small penis, he should find a virgin. Once a woman has experienced a full grown penis, the small version will never due. Why settle for less, find what you want. It is not fair to the man, and the woman can not hide the disappointment, it eventually comes out.

   I am sorry about the male ego, but the truth is the truth.

   1. As a guy with a small penis it’s good to hear that kind of honesty. I can totally understand that some women would need a decent size and wouldn’t want to, as you say, settle for less.
      Best way for the man and the woman is for the woman to say that, it seems some women think it’s a bad thing and they have to settle and/or not offend the guy.
      Honesty works much better

      1. It’s not honesty..more like self absorbed narcissism.
         As I said before,any and all of these size queens arguments can be turned against them.
         They complain small cocks don’t fill them up?
         Well Vagina’s that have done many sets of kegals will firmly grip a cock of almost any reasonable size.
         So maybe the problem is their loose,size queen pussys,not the guys manhood.
         Also men could make the same arguments about womens boobs being too small for their taste.
         But of course then it would no longer just be ‘honesty’,and the insecure feminists would get triggered.
         In closing don’t be a Cuck Jon.

   2. Gentlemen, do not take Kyamie’s bait. She doesn’t speak for all women. Everybody is different: People have different preferences, different deal breakers. And often times, intercourse isn’t even the route to most women’s orgasms. Our culture would do well kick its penis-size obsession. See this reader’s excellent thoughts on the topic: https://www.emandlo.com/stop-relying-on-your-dick-to-please-a-woman/

      1. I think she does speak for most women who have experienced a larger penis, and I second her thoughts. The fact of the matter is, because as you mentioned very large penis’ are rare, most women, even those with a few partners, have never actually experienced one. So while a large number of woman may believe size doesn’t matter when they say it, their opinions on the matter are about as valid as someone who has never eaten a certain food trying to tell you what it tastes like.

         Let’s stop spinning facts in such a way that they protect the fragel male ego and speak in terms of biology and science. It is an absolute falsehood that most women can not orgasam from penetration. What is a fact is that most women have not. Just because you have never ridden a bike does not automatically mean you are incapable of doing so. The reason most women do not experience this is because it requires a larger than average penis, and as we both agree, they are in short supply. So most women never experience one, and the result is most women never experience a penis to vagina orgasam. But they are very capable of doing so.

         Continuing with the reality of science amd biology, I will explain why. The clitoris is not strictly an external organ. Beyond what we see on the outside, internally the clitoris wraps around the top and sides of the vaginal wall. This part of the clitoris can be stimulated just the same as the external portion, so any woman capable of achieving clitoral orgasm, can achieve orgasam in this way.

         The problem is, it requires the proper amount of stretching and friction. The thicker a penis is, the more the vaginal wall is stretched, which allows greater stimulation of the clitoris internally. A longer penis is going take longer strokes which will create greater friction, which results in greater stimulation of the clitoris internally. Thickness is of greater importance here. If the vaginal walls are not sufficiently stretched to stimulate the clitoris internally, no amount of length will matter. A penis could be 10″, but if it were as thin as a drinking straw, it would do few, if any, women much good. But length is still very important because like i said, it increases the friction once you establish that stimulation. That greater friction will make her more likely to achieve orgasam, and more likely to achieve it faster, which is important because she is in a race against the stamina of her partner, which her partner is not.

         By the way, this is what people are actually referring to when then discuss the “mysterious” G spot. The G spot is not some strange unexplainable phenomenon, it is just the stimulation of the clitoris externally. Like I said, it wraps around the top of the vaginal wall, so when you insert finger(s) and hook them upward to stimulate the G spot, you are actually stimulating the clitoris. Though fingers are obviously shorter and thinner than most penis’, they have knuckles which allow them to bend in such a way that they stretch the top of the vaginal wall, as well as near unlimited stamina. They do however provide less friction so it is still a lesser experience. It does however prove that most woman are actually perfectly capable of internal orgasms, provided the object making the attempt meets the physical parameters to do so.

         But we have to protect the fragel male ego. So rather than acknowledge the scientific and biological fact that most penis’ are simply not capable of providing a woman with an orgasm, we will lie to woman and tell them that they are the ones incapable of achieving it. Because it is so much more fair to pretend it is the woman’s fault. It is also fair to convince her that she is not capable of experiencing something more, so that she never seeks it out, there by denying her what could be a wonderful experience. But yes, let’s just lie so that men feel better about their dicks because that is so much more important. I am sorry but that is just wrong.

         Why should women be told they should settle for less when we would never tell a man that? “Oh it doesn’t matter of you can’t give her an orgasam with penis to vagina sex, you can use your fingers and mouth. As long as you give her any orgasm she should just be happy.” Let’s turn that around. “Oh it doesn’t matter that you have an extremely wide vagina and men can’t feel anything when they stick it in and can’t give a man an orgasam with penis to vagina sex, you can just use your fingers and give him a hand job. As long as you give him any orgasam at all he should just be happy.”

         Sorry but no man would be just expected to settle for that. Most men will tell you that the vaginal orgasam is of significantly better quality, and it is ok for them to prefer and desire it in a relationship. Well the same is true for women, it is simply a better quality orgasam, and to tell them they can’t do it, and don’t need it, is just wrong.

         1. Sarah: i love your candor and agree 100%. Its stunning how many women do not understand their anatomy. My wife left me, but still requires i come by to give her a proper fucking complete with multiple orgasms. (Im thick, 7.5″) At the same time I am a size queen myself, with a best friend packing s thick 9″er….and I’m happy to be his “girl” anytime I’m told to.

         2. Sarah,

            OK, putting egos aside, it sounds like you’re making the case that most men’s penises aren’t as big as most women need, or at least prefer, since “larger” and “very large” by definition exclude most men. Let’s say 33% of women don’t care about penis size, at least not in the way you describe, and most men are big enough for them. That means 67% of women are like you, and at least would prefer a man who is considerably above average sized. Lets say that 15% of men are the size you and 67% of women would prefer. That means that out of every 100 straight women and men, 67 women find 15 men most desirable. The number may be even more skewed, since some of those 15 men will randomly end up with some of the 33 women who could take or leave their penis. But make it 67 women interested in 15 men. That looks like a problem.

            As a woman, how would you suggest women deal with this, particularly women who would like to eventually have a monogamous relationship with a man they love and enjoy having sex with?

            As for men, what do you expect those other 85 out of every 100 men to do with the information you’re providing? Or are you simply telling men that they’re not really good enough for you, or in most cases for the women they’re currently in a relationship with, and also helpless to do anything about it? That seems kind of harsh, so I’m hoping that you’re not simply identifying a problem without offering any sort of solution.

            1. Love your statistical analysis, Mandlo!

            2. Mandlo,

               Nothing in your response disputes anything I said. After saying “putting ego aside” you simply repeated the idea that because men can do nothing about it, it does no good to tell them the truth, which is the same old ego saving argument.

               This is not a problem, it is a biological reality. I am not required to offer a solution, and we don’t need to ignore the truth if it can’t be solved. That is not how reality works. It is also a biological reality that everyone currently living will die someday. I can’t “solve” that “problem” either, but that doesn’t mean I am required to keep my mouth shut, or lie to people that they will live forever.

            3. Sarah,

               I know you feel strongly about this, but you know you made an analogy to death when discussing sexual satisfaction. Just had to point that out, whether it was conscious or not. So….

               Seriously though, I am sympathetic to your contention, which I find accurate, that women have historically been given less consideration than men regarding their sexual needs. That seems to be changing, and I see that as a good thing. Anticipating your response, I’ll agree that while things are getting better regarding women’s sexuality, they could improve still quite a bit.

               but moving on, in one of your posts you said that most men’s penises are too small for women to have orgasms from penetration. I don’t think stating that is any more “true” than stating that most women don’t have orgasms from penetration. It’s no less “true” than saying that most women are too loose to have orgasms from most men’s penises. I’m not saying that and I don’t think that’s really true, but neither do I think your statement is true. If there’s a mismatch and it affects either parties satisfaction, no one is solely to “blame” for aspects of their body they have little or no control over.

               Regarding science and facts, I’m not sure your experience matches all or most women’s. It may, but it also may not. In one study from a few years ago that did lend some support to your contention, the women who had vaginal orgasms with some regularity did show a preference for longer (not more girthy) penises. But of those women who had vaginal orgasms, only about 35% had that preference. The author of that study, a man, has concluded elsewhere that vaginal orgasms are 400 times better than clitoral orgasms. Not 400%, which is 4 time better, but 400 times better, which is 40,000% if I carried my decimal points correctly. Really? So maybe he has an ax to grind. And in addition, the women in that study said that the had vaginal orgasms more often when they engaged in lots of foreplay prior to penis in vagina stuff. So there’s that.

               In another recent study, with a woman the primary author, the finding was that the distance from clitoris to the vaginal opening of a woman was a very good predictor of whether she had vaginal orgasms, with a smaller distance predicting more vaginal orgasms.

               Then in another study, when women received sex ed that portrayed vaginal orgasms as fairly normal, those women had, wa-la, more vaginal orgasms. Expectations can do a lot to shape our experience.

               Another thing that jumps out from your comments is what looks like a real prioritizing of penis in vagina sex, which always tends to favor the penis regardless of size. Lesbian women seem to have pretty good sex lives with no actual penis involved in their fun. Sure, many lesbian couples use penis shaped objects and other kinds of toys, and the results seem to be pretty great. There’s nothing to prevent men and women from approaching sex that way, with an open mind and a desire to please the person they’re with. If a man’s ego gets in the way of a woman’s enjoyment in that context, like “I don’t want to be replaced by a dildo” or “I can’t compete with a vibrator”, then screw him, and not in the good way. But the same for women who define sex narrowly, at their own expense, and then complain about it. Not saying you do that.

               As to preferences, don’t you think we all make some concessions to reality? If I choose to think that way, there’s a woman in my life who set the sexual standard for everyone before and after her. Her body and her ability set her apart, and yes, her body alone made the experience better and the sex more satisfying. I had more orgasms, the intensity was better, especially round 2 or 3 when sometimes things drop off for me (and honestly round 3 ain’t happening anymore). And that’s compared to other women at that same stage in my life when my young body was it’s most alert and responsive. In the strictest sense, sex was better with “her”. Best.

               And now nearly 4 decades later I have a really great time with a woman my age, so about 4 decades older than “her”. I never feel deprived. I don’t fantasize about the 20 year old. I don’t miss her or sex with her. I don’t compare “her” with my current partner. I’m present with my partner and too busy enjoying her.

               Like I wrote above, I hear your concern for women getting their sexual needs met. As a practical matter, isn’t sex in general going to be better for women if men and women approach it feeling good about themselves, about their right to enjoy it, about their responsibility to communicate their needs, gently at times, and with an attitude that they’ll make an effort to see that their partner has a good time, including orgasm(s)?

            4. Woohoo, mandlo! We’re in love (thx to yr Jan 3rd comment).

            5. I am not sure if you are missing the point on purpose or by accident. Again, my point, which is that size actually does matter, is not disputed by anything you said. In fact, what you say tends to suggest that it does matter. I never said that all women have a preference for a larger penis. I actually said that as most women have never experienced one, due to their rarity, and so most women actually don’t know. But I said that lying to them that it doesn’t matter, and therefore encouraging them to explore a potentially pleasurable experience for the purpose of protecting a mans ego, is unfair. I also never said that anyone was to blame by what you call a biological miss match, I just said it is what it is.

               You mention using toys to make up for a small or thinner penis. Unnecessary if size doesn’t matter. This article ends with a link to tips on things you can do to make up for a smaller penis. Unnecessary if size doesn’t matter.

               Why can’t we just say the honest thing? For many women a larger penis may be more pleasurable. Why must we lie to keep everyone blissfully ignorant?

            6. Well, you are honest, but you are definitely not pleasurable.

            7. Sarah….you come across as very shallow and lacking in many desirable human qualities (likewise so does Kristin).
               Hey….I think it’s GREAT you like big cocks! I think it’s great you like to be stretched and filled up! What I don’t think is great is your attitude towards men who don’t measure up.

               My first wife and I enjoyed an amazing sex life. My cock is 6″ (high average). She never had a problem with it. After having given birth to our 2 kids she was “bigger” down there and I actually loved it!
               Now I will apologize if I’m being too graphic with what I’m about to say, but I’m being honest and showing that there are a great many ways to sexually please someone.
               We got into using big toys and I mean BIG…far bigger than any cock you’re every going to find in real life. I also started fisting my wife and trust me…my fist and wrist are thicker than any cock you’re going to find in real life. The use of my fist and fingers would have her squirting like a fountain!
               Did she enjoy it? Hell yes she did! But she also still enjoyed my 6″ cock.
               The true enjoyment came from our connection during sex and exploring what excited both of us.

               There are so many dimensions to human sexuality and it’s far more than just a large cock being thrust inside of you. I think most women would gladly want a “smaller” man who is a great guy, funny, treats her well AND is will to do whatever it takes to get her off and loves her!

               One day you’ll learn. At age 58 I’m still learning how the complexity of human relationships and trust me…it’s a great deal more than tab A inserted in slot B.

         3. Girl, you need to chill. It is obvious you are either a troll, or a girl who was made to feel not-so-pretty by a guy…maybe dumped,…So now you are attacking him by attacking all guys on here, in a sad little attempt to feel better about yourself. It’s so incredibly sad and pathetic to watch this thread here. Grow up, little immature Sarah. Seriously, act like an adult.

            1. I agree, Sarah is a disgrace and failure as both a woman and human being. She is shallow, superficial and totally screwed-up priorities, morals, and values. Love is what matters, not penis size. It is far better to live as a man with a small penis than live as a woman like Sarah with no heart.

      2. In generations past, women didn’t have these penis size preferences and deal breakers like they do today. Back then, most women had far more heart and character compared to today.

   3. Girl, you need to chill. It is obvious you are either a troll, or a girl who was made to feel not-so-pretty by a guy…maybe dumped,…So now you are attacking him by attacking all guys on here, in a sad little attempt to feel better about yourself. It’s so incredibly sad and pathetic to watch this thread here. Grow up, little immature Kyamie. Seriously, act like an adult.

7. She complains about her bf’s small penis but he’ll soon be complaining about her loose worn out pussy . This woman is not worth to be taken as a wife or else she’ll look elsewhere for bigger dicks behind her husband’s back . Lust for hung men has overpowered her conscience .

   1. what??? She will soon encounter the penis God built perfectly for her womanly parts; capable of bringing her to multiple mind-bending squirting orgasms on a nightly basis, which mentally cement her role as the “woman” in the relationship. It will be a special moment, too. She will be surprisingly stretched, and deeply penetrated, and it will stimulate areas inside her she never imagined possible or even knew she had! It will hurt “so good.” It will be undeniable her little juice box was built as a play toy for her hung man and that will be IT. Cry about it. Or go find the girl god built for you. Oh. You can’t, because you’re too busy being butthurt over the fact a woman dared state a penis of your size is unacceptable. Well guess what–that’s life.

      1. Lol Jared the white knight cuckold.

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10. That’s what happens with promiscuity. The more the women can compare the more unsatisfied they are. I’m average, between 5.5 and 6 I guess (I haven’t measured it since 20 years ago) and I’m asuming the truth, no hard feelings, no self-deception. It is what it is. There is not 8 inches penises for every girl out there, not even 6 inches. And the ones who settle for less will resent you. That’s the problem.

    We were a culture of people ignorant about sex, but overall happier. Now we are bitter and lonely, and unafraid to hurt others so we punish them to not give what we feel we are entitled to.

    1. Let’s not blame women for “promiscuity”, whatever that is. And let’s not romanticize the past, when there was no such thing as marital rape, no decent birth control, a lack of understanding and concern for women’s orgasms, when masturbation was poo-poo’ed and abortion was illegal. Those were not the good ol’ days. Which is not to say today is perfect — each generation has their own crosses to bear. While the Internet has done great good, it’s done great harm as well. Better sex ed, which emphasizes kindness and respect, is always the way to go — infinitely better than ignorance.

       1. Actually we can ‘blame’ women for promiscuity, because aside from rape, increased sexual activity cannot happen without their consent

       2. I totally disagree. If there wasn’t so much promiscuity among women, then they wouldn’t have sampled all these penis sizes so they can ridicule and reject the men whose sizes they don’t like. They wouldn’t have these horrendous attitudes towards small penises if they hadn’t had sex with large ones. And the past was far better in the good old days when women were more about love than sex. Back generations ago, most women stayed virgins until they were married. They didn’t have these shallow requirements wanting a man with a large penis and condemning anyone who didn’t measure up. That didn’t happen in the good old days. Also, women were far more about love and romance. Their priorities were not so shallow and superficial. Back then, women just wanted to find a good man whom they loved and who loved them. There were no superficial conditional strings attached like penis size and wallet size that a man had to have. Women were far more about love and were pure of heart. Those type of women either don’t exist anymore and if they do, they are very much the minority and very difficult to find. Also, back in the good old days, sex and sexual satisfaction and having orgasms weren’t the be-all-end-all importance to a woman. Unfortunately, it is now. I am 52-year old virgin that has never had a girlfriend. Had I been born in a different time period and was living in the good old days, I would’ve tried to have a relationship with a woman because penis size wasn’t on the radar to what was important to a woman, love was. The combination of feminism, porn, and the sexual revolution have changed women over generations for the worse. They have thrown away good values, good priorities, and good morals for penis size, wallet size, selfish sexual satisfaction, etc. and don’t care as much about love as they did back in the good old days. The dating scene for men today is toxic and if he doesn’t have a large penis or a large bank account he has every reason to be afraid to get involved with a woman. He didn’t have to be afraid of women like that in the good old days when women were really about love and romance and not about sex and penis size.

          1. My theme slogan is love is what matters,, not penis size. The majority of the women in the good old days would agree with me. Unfortunately, today the majority of women would disagree with my theme slogan as they are about materialistic, shallow, superficial things instead of things like love, compassion, sensitivity, caring , respect, sensitivity all other positive traits that are far more important in life.

             1. I’ll give you yet another example of the mindset and attitudes of women of today compared to the good old days. When a woman today is anticipating having sex with a man, she is thinking “I hope he is well-endowed and has a big penis. Otherwise, the night will be ruined.” On the contrary, when a woman in the good old days was anticipating having sex with a man, she was thinking, “this is going to be so wonderful, I am going to bed with a man that I love and really care about.” That is an important example how the majority of women have really changed for the worse.

             2. This shit is only in your mind! You have no idea what the other person is thinking about. And honestly….most people are focused on their own fears….the women will be worrying if her tits are too small, if she looks fat, does he think my pussy looks funny, etc. For a guy who’s NEVER had sex you act like you know all about what goes on inside the bedroom. The truth is all of this exists only in your mind!

                You will ignore my advice, I’m certain, because you enjoy playing the victim…it’s a role you’ve adopted over the years. But you need to seek professional help….not just because you have a small wang, but because you have an unhealthy view of women and of life.

             3. I have read women’s comments all over the internet and on youtube videos. I can give documented proof but I’m nor wasting my time with someone like you. Your advice is worthless and all of the men who on those support forums would totally agree with me. I’m not reading your crap any more so go find someone else to harass. I know you will.

          2. Jesus Christ! Give up your sad sack, poor me, tears in my beer, whining! You’re 53 and a virgin. Hit the rewind button to the days when you were a teenager or in your early 20’s and there were plenty of women who weren’t having wild crazy sex and who were ignorant about penis size….so why didn’t you date then? Because there is something wrong with you that is why!
             You’re a fucked up human who never sought out any help. Instead you flood internet message boards crying your eyes out and wishing women were ignorant about the joys of sex so that one might take pity upon you.
             You could have 10″ of schlong swinging between your legs and still no woman would want you? Why? Who could stand to listen to your insufferable moaning and belly aching!??
             No woman would have any respect for you.
             But hey…it’s your life and you’re free to waste it however you want.

             1. Hey, internet troll piece of shit, Dave. You are a vile,, disgusting, disgrace as a human being. Anyone who would post your kind of hate there is something wrong with you. If hatemongers like you were to drop off the face of this earth, the world would be a much kinder place.

             2. For a sensitive topic, this thread has been a failure. What it has done is open the floodgates for the internet trolls to spew their obnoxious, vile, hatred directed at others. The most recent and best example is low-life, piece-of-shit, internet troll Dave.

             3. Stephen….why don’t you go crying to Em and Lo again! Mean, vile piece of shit Dave is hurting my feelings.
                Do you realize just how many people YOU’VE been insulting with your constant spamming of posts? Nearly every post you make has you lashing out at some women who’s posted about what she prefers in cock size.

                Look…here’s the honest truth….you are never going meet a woman, date a woman or have sex with a woman due to your lifelong (and untreated) insecurities…so why don’t you stay away from topics like this? Why continue to torture yourself? You’re not looking to change anything about yourself…and make no mistake it is YOU that has a massive problem.
                So why not direct your energies towards your career, or develop a hobby (golf, fly fishing, stamp collecting, join a book club). Take your focus off of your penis, a penis that you’ve never had occasion to use, and put your focus towards something that could make you happy.
                But you won’t because you like feeling like this. In some masochistic way you enjoy the pain and misery.

             4. There are millions of men who have penis size insecurities. I go on sites that are support groups for penis size insecurities. There are several people who are also virgins in their 50s who post there. They express many of the views I do and agree with me. Since those sites are heavily moderated, your posts would’ve been deleted and you would’ve been banned from the site. That’s guaranteed. They wouldn’t allow people like you to post and attack others who are hurting.. Also, to show what a nasty person you are, further up, you suggested something as disgusting as “small penis humiliation” and ending with “because women don’t want little dicks” . The many people on those site and the millions of men who have suffered their entire lives with issue, would’ve been so insulted, offended, and outraged by your nasty suggestion. You think it’s okay to kick someone when they’re down. That is ruthless and inhumane and shows there is much more wrong with you then men like me and millions of others who have our problems.

             5. People like Dave see someone in pain and have no problem making insensitive , unjustified comments to inflict more pain. That is the truth. Otherwise, he never would’ve responded to my posts in the first place. That type of person has no respect for other people’s feelings, empathy, compassion, or sense of decency.

             6. Stephen, first off….this is NOT a support group. It is an open forum. Further more I would suggest whatever support groups you belong to might be more of a “crying forum” for all you men will small dicks to whine about your lot in life and attack those awful women who like a larger sized cock. Reading your various replies I can see that those support groups have only fueled you anger against women.

                Your attitudes about women are frightening! Your comments about women are based upon your FEAR of women. It’s fears like yours that have led certain countries to adopt female circumcision, also know as female genital mutilation. This is done in a effort to control women’s sexuality. The simple truth is that women are sexual superwomen, they possess an ability for sexual pleasure that men both fear and envy. The ability for women to have multiple orgasms is amazing…and thankfully men can’t orgasm this way…because due to the nature of men we would never leave the house! We’d constantly be trying to break our own orgasm record! I had 30 yesterday, today I’m trying for 35!! LOL
                But I’m getting off topic. Re-read your posts about women and blaming their desire for a larger cock on being promiscuous, of having had too many men and discovering what they like and don’t like.

                You might consider my comments hateful…but they are aimed specifically at you. I’m not making broad, sweeping statements and condemning an entire sex, like you are with your comments about women.
                So why have I taken aim at you? Because you have the power to change your attitude but you do nothing to change it. Instead you wallow in self pity every moment of the day and seek to blame others for the hell you’ve created for yourself.
                That’s a type of weakness that I detest. You are a victim by choice. YOU chose to never date, YOU chose to never have sex, and YOU are choosing to blame women for those choices. Rather than seek real professional help in order to overcome your problem you choose instead to join small dick support groups on the internet. Well how has that worked out for you? Feeling better about yourself? Ready to ask a woman out on a date? No, of course you’re not. Much better to spend day after day posting anonymously on the internet and lash out at who you believe is the source of your pain: women.

                I have great empathy for men with small dicks. It’s a (pardon the pun) a shortcoming that I wouldn’t want to have. But I’m bald and that’s a shortcoming, and one I can’t really do anything about but learn to live with it. Many women don’t like bald men….do I call them awful? Do I call them shallow? No, I get it. It’s not something they find attractive. My girlfriend had never dated a bald man and prefers men with hair. But she took a chance on me because what I had written in my online dating profile intrigued her so much she took a chance on me. You know what? I’m the love of her life! No one had made her this happy, made her laugh this much, made her feel so loved.

                I don’t moan and cry about my baldness and it’s something you can’t really hide and people make fun of bald people all the time and do so right to your face! Now certainly if I had a choice I would love a full, beautiful head of hair….but I don’t, and I don’t dwell on my baldness. In fact I look for ways that it’s an advantage to not have hair. Why constantly focus on the negative?

                So yes I have empathy for men with small dicks….but if you want to be a whimpering sad sack then you’re going to lose that empathy fast! My god there are so many ways to bring a woman to a thundering orgasm besides shoving a big cock inside of them. You want to see a woman have a body wrenching orgasm? Fist fuck them! It’s an amazing sight to see and an amazing feeling for the woman. So if some woman truly needs to be filled and stretched…use your fist and she will love you for it!

                Now do yourself a real favor and go seek real professional help and get off these fucking forums!

             7. I didn’t even bother to read your worthless, dishonest, obnoxious, hateful driveling rants. I am far better off living my life with a small penis than to live your life with no heart whatsoever. Now do yourself a favor and never talk to be again or these are the responses you will deservedly get.

             8. Of course you didn’t bother to read my post….reading it would force you to hold a mirror up and examine your role in your problem. But you don’t want to hold yourself accountable….you want someone to blame. Your main target is women, not specific women but ALL women. in truth you HATE and FEAR women. Your problem is not your minuscule phallus, you’re just using it as a way to gain some sympathy. Since you are a virgin, since you’ve never dated…the truth is you’ve never been rejected by a woman. I’ve been rejected by women yet you don’t see me whining and crying and bashing those women. Between you and I…I am the only one who “could” claim to have been wronged by a woman/women. Yet here you are playing the victim…and you are a victim of your own self loathing, your own self perception.

    2. Internet porn. It’s ruined men and women alike. Men know they’ll never compare to the 9″ stud shooting copious amounts of sperm all over the place…and women know they aren’t all perfectly airbrushed like the models. It’s led to viagra addiction and vaginaplasties. It’s so pathetically sad to see all these young 20’s KNOCKOUT girls insist on “lights off” sex because they are insecure about their bodies, and then go lay some quack to mutilate their lábia because it doesn’t match the porn.

11. I’d say just become a bit more playful. The sex can still be awesome i think, but if you need to be really filled at times either use a toy or better yet explore an open relationship. It takes a secure man to go that route, but the quality of a relationship is not defined by our monogamy. And you wouldn’t want men to advertise their penises sizes. A) it ruins the surprise, b) it will make it so cheap. If you need a guy who is really hung, just ask your friends.

12. Going to share something to make a point. My wife has a condition call endometriosis. Basically her “red army” is bigger than most and more painful. As such, she cannot bear children. Trying to adopt through the foster system which is not as easy as you’d think.
    I share that to bring up the point that it is her body and she cannot control that. I have no intention on leaving her. For one, we love each other. Also, it would be wrong to leave someone over something that person cannot control.
    The only reason to be with or not be with someone is character. Does he treat you with respect? Is he a hard worker? Does he have a good job or otherwise can hold a job? Is he honest? Faithful? Would he be a good provider? Would he be a good husband and father? Those are the questions and every man has the right to prove he can be all those things.
    The size of his Penis is something he has no control over. To be blunt, it is wrong to either be with or not be with a man based on the size of his Penis. No ifs ands or buts, you know you are wrong if you consider leaving a guy for that. You should have empathy for him if it’s really that small.
    You should not dump the guy, laugh at him and tell all your girlfriends about him. How would you feel if there was something about you that you had no control over? You’d want your man to love you regardless.

    1. “How would you feel if there was something about you that you had no control over?”

       Everyone’s got those.

    2. John, these are such great comments. I 100% agree. It puts into perspective what truly matters and is important in life and that is character, and most importantly, love. A lesson that so many people today so desperately need to learn.

    3. Em&Lo highlighted John’s comments and featured them in a printed comment of the week. From so much horrible, insensitive, cruelty throughout this blog by nasty female bloggers like Siziest, Kristin, and nasty male bloggers like internet troll Dave, John’s comments were so badly needed in the discussion and deserved high praise. What he wrote was a rare bright light in a blog that was sadly filled with darkness.

       1. LOL! Guess what Stephen? Em and Lo highlighted MY comments just a few weeks ago! The comments I made on this very topic. Go read them!
          You know what they also did? They had to, for the first time ever, change the advice article they had written in response to your concerns over being a virgin. Why? Because of your whining and complaining to them. They even wrote me a personal email to apologize for their actions.
          I’ve offered many helpful and insightful comments….you on the other hand are in full attack mode against women. You truly should be banned for your hate mongering.

          1. Wrong. They did the right thing by deleting your comments. Your comments were nothing but judgemental, dishonest, and as nasty as it gets. If you posted that garbage to anybody on those support group sites, those moderators would’ve immediately deleted them and you would have been banned. And every person hurting on this issue would’ve thanked the moderators for getting rid of you to make it a safe environment for those who are suffering. You are destructive towards people like me and millions of others.

             1. Ok…they didn’t just delete my comments, they deleted everyone’s comments as well as deleting the advice THEY had written. They changed the entire column and omitted any reference to you and your problem.
                If you would like I can copy and paste the apology email that they sent to me.
                All of their actions were based upon YOUR overreaction and they feared you might do something foolish.
                I however do not share their concern…you are an attention seeker.

                As for your “support” groups…they are support groups in name only. What they truly are are sites to allow men to bitch and moan about their tiny peckers. Sites where you are free to bash the awful women who have shamed you. Now please bear in mind…NO WOMAN has actually shamed YOU. It’s all in your imagination…since you’ve never dated a woman, since no woman has ever seen you naked. Sadly you cannot see the part your own mind/imagination has played in your illness.
                And of course they would ban me, not that I would have any need to go on sites like that, but of course they would ban me because I would not allow them to wallow in their self pity. Wallow all you want Stephen…it’s your life that you have wasted away…and you are free to do so.

             2. There you go misjudging and coming to the wrong conclusions of people you have never interacted with. These people who are regular members of those sites happen to be nice and really god guys who have had the worst nightmarish experiences with women all because those women judged and dumped them for their penis size. Others who are virgins like me are to afraid to approach women for fear of those exact results. They are very much hurting inside. Many of them sadly talk suicide because it hurts so much. I can so much relate and sympathize with how they feel. You can’t. It is a community that has formed so we understand they we are not alone in our struggles. The moderators keep close eyes on the forums to make others don’t come on the site to judge them and tear them down. If posters like that are discovered, their comments would be deleted and that person would be banned from the site. Unfortunately, those are the actions you would take if you ventured there. Those rules are in place to protect that community and not have it disrupted because this is such a sensitive issue for them and me and people are really hurting. Sure, there are those that offer advice. However, that advice is non-judgmental, compassionate, and not with a harshness that they feel they are being attacked. One of the moderators of the site, preaches gentleness and kindness. I haven’t even scratched the surface telling my entire painful stories of loss, heartaches, heartbreaks, harassment and being bullied. I know now I can’t tell my truthfully painful story here because people like you would be ready to make destructive comments to make me feel even worse. One of my many themes is you never kick someone when they’re down. I know I can feel comfortable telling my entire story on those sites with no repercussions. That is what I intend to do. So, I will not open up and tell my personal story here again. However, You are not getting rid of me. I will continue to post comments on this site. I suggest you not follow me around and continue to harass me as you have. If that does happen, I will get angry and retaliate hostile as I have been doing. So, for my future comments on this site, the one name that is extremely unwanted and unwelcome in a reply is yours.

             3. I just visited one of the sites you are talking about. In a word it is “depressing”. You are not going to get better from being on one of those sites….in fact you’re going to feel even worse about yourself! It was making me feel awful about my cock and I’m pretty sure I’m just about the perfect size that women want, based upon different studies.

                You need to seek PROFESSIONAL help, get PROFESSIONAL therapy. If you’re serious about getting better that is what you will do. Visiting that site (the one Irma Jean is on) is not going to help you one little bit. The stories men tell will only reinforce you’re feelings of inadequacy. Granted I only looked at a handful of posts but I didn’t read of anyone making progress. All i read was men wallowing in their own pain….and some of them have been posting/sharing their pain for years.
                Seriously I think many of them enjoy it. They derive some sort of satisfaction from their pain. I think you do too.
                Please post your stories of heartache, heartbreaks and loss. I’d be interested to read how a man who’s never dated, never had sex, etc. can experience any of those things. And I’ll give you a newsflash….WE’VE all got our own stories of heartbreak and loss…it’s called LIFE! But some of us choose to handle those things a bit differently than you’ve chosen to handle them.
                Please look into getting PROFESSIONAL help and stop relying on internet forums.

             4. There are 3 such support group forum sites. I am registered for all 3 with different chosen usernames. The one that IrmaJean is on is my favorite because of IrmaJean. She has got to be the nicest, kindest, sweetest, woman I’ve ever read anywhere. I absolutely love reading her comments. She has my utmost respect and admiration. She legitimately cares about these guys. Neither she nor any of the people on those sites would’ve made the types of comments that you made to me. Comments that judge others and that are totally insensitive (which is what you gave me and is why I insisted should be deleted) are not allowed. Making comments to make someone who is hurting feel worse is inappropriate there(again what you did to me). I can talk about massive being bullied during my life, being sexually harassed by both girls in school and women in the workplace, and being rejected by girls/women. Again, I certainly won’t go into detail discussing it with you. I will be making my posting debut there and on the other two sites and introduce myself very soon. I will be pouring out my heart with all of my thoughts and feelings there knowing that the people there will really understand and I will be among friends. On those sites, I will be able to break my silence and tell my much needed story knowing there is no chance that anyone on those sites will respond so inappropriately and hurtfully with judgments and insensitivity the way you did. I have read every page of comments on those sites. I think those guys are terrific people who have been cruelly hurt by women all because of the size of a body part they can’t control. Like I said, I will still post here. However, I will not bring my personal story into the conversation here ever again knowing that you will ready to pounce and make me feel worse. They won’t.

                Oh, and one more thing. I never wrote to Em&Lo and asked for advice. I made comments in response to Kristin sharing that the reason why I was so afraid to date was people with her attitudes. That’s when I shared some of my story. I had no idea Em&Lo were going to make a separate advice blog spotlighting me. I found out a week later when Em&Lo e-mailed me. I was shocked and saddened by their decision. However, I decided to post on that blog and share more of myself and hoped I would receive some really good, compassionate, kind responses with some decent advice. The ones I read from Em&Lo and another poster were actually good. Then, I saw your name and read your response. When your first sentence was “this is going to be blunt”, I should’ve stopped reading your comments right then and there and not go any further. I knew you wrote something that was going to make me feel worse before I read your entire entry. But, I read it anyway and was just so disgusted. That thread blog had to be taken down and changed for several reasons. First of all, I never wrote to them and asked for advice so Em&Lo were totally wrong for printing my original comments as asking for advice. Second, your comments totally ruined what could’ve been a decent blog anyway. Third, not only was I offended and hurt by your comments, but anyone else who came to read and could relate to what I wrote would’ve also been very hurt and offended by those comments (that includes everyone on those 3 support group forum sites) Those three reasons justified that blog being changed and deletions done with your comments. When a blog is created irresponsibly that can hurt innocent people, it morally must be removed. That is what justifiably happened.

             5. I’ve read some of the comments made my small dicked me on one of the forums you visit. What I read is comments made by men who hate women and blame them for all that is wrong in a man’s life. I’m not surprised you are unable to see that anger and hate that is directed at women. These men are not mentally healthy!

                One guy talked about all the skimpy outfits girls wore at college. He said they all dressed liked “whores”. He went on to say about all the pussy other guy’s at school were getting, how they got to fuck these women while he was getting none of it. BINGO! Right there you can see his anger! These women are WHORES because HE’S not getting any of the action. He hates these women were shutting him out of their pussy. And bare in mind…they would not know about the size of his cock…the real truth is they just aren’t attracted to him. But he makes it about his cock size.

                I’ve also notice that many of these men have admitted porn addiction. Oh that’s gong to be great for your self confidence…watching huge cocked men fucking beautiful women and watching these women drool and over those monster cocks. Just the thing a small dicked guy needs to watch. No wonder these men develop a self loathing.

                Stephen…do you watch porn? Do you have a porn addiction? If so, you need to stop. You can’t watch it because it ultimately will only torture you.

                I also call bullshit on women harassing you at school and in the workplace. Harassing you over what? How are they going to know your “size”???
                You’re just looking for sympathy. Well tell an internet forum full of strangers? You know all they are going to do is say…don’t listen to those horrible nasty whores! You’re a wonderful man who deserves loves and respect….blah, blah, blah. Go tell your story to a mental health professional….can some REAL help.
                Now you’ve commented on most comments I’ve made…..but you never address my comment about seeking professional help. Why is that? Why do you avoid that ONE THING that will ACTUALLY help you?
                Because you don’t want any help. You just want to play victim. You just want to spout off about how cruel and horrible women are.

             6. I have said everything that I’m ever going to say to you. There are other sites that have a very special advanced feature called putting someone on their “ignore list”. All you have to do is type in the person’s name you want nothing to do with and his name and posts will be totally invisible to you. You won’t ever have to deal with that person again. I wish this site had that advanced feature so I can put you on an “ignore list.” Unfortunately, since this site doesn’t and you’re so determined in targeting me and following me around this site even though I clearly stated that your replies to me are unwelcome and unwanted, every time you do such internet troll behavior, I’m just going to write as reply stating I’m ignoring you.

             7. These site is NOT a member’s forum. You’re insistence that it should be run in such a way is another indication of the “control” that you seek in your life. You seek to control everyone and everything….like wanting women to be virgins, loathing them for having sampled many sizes of cock, looking for people to be banned, etc.

             8. Your comments are being ignored by me. So, go reply to someone else.

             9. Here’s another example of the hate for women on these small penis forums. None of this is healthy, yet you enjoy these types of forums and seek comfort there.
                “I hate women, at this point in my life i really don’t see any reason not to. they hate men like me, all of them hate men like me. so i don’t have any choice but to hate them back. i now embrace them avoiding me. i want them to keep avoiding me. i’m against the female gender. i hate the female gender. i can’t stand the female gender. women are not kind people. women are straight up bitches. another thing i don’t like about women is they have periods, which is very disgusting and nasty. they have bloody stanky hole pussies. it’s ridiculous how they have periods certain times of the month and have nasty attitudes. they’re just fucked up people and i don’t understand them. i don’t care to understand them because they don’t understand men. i don’t like the chase of a woman or pursuing them. i don’t like them at all because females aren’t attracted to me. so why should i give a fuck about people who don’t care about me? i don’t trust them and they’re all the fucking same. no, i do not want to hurt them physically, nor am i turning gay.. i just want them to continue to stay the fuck away from me. i deleted all the porn on my computer because it involves women. women are sick ass fucks. to call women sick ass fucks is an insult to sick ass fucks. “

             10. Stephen…more interesting comments from a small dick forum. It would seem that if people make posts trying to get people to break free of their unhealthy obsession over having a small dick they get bashed.
                 I thought you said everyone was kind and understanding on those forums? I guess not kind to those who won’t blame the victim game with them.

                 “Not much else goes on on this forum besides the SPS stuff. I have tried countless times and just crickets. No one here except Beth gives a fuck about mental health or spirituality or being positive or trying to make changes and when I try I get nothing or even mocked so fuck it if it’s small dicks they want it’s small dicks they are gonna get! ”

                 “Exactly. Every guy here is pissed off ostensibly because his dick is small and if you so much as suggest reframing that or otherwise coping you get attacked so if you can’t beat ’em join ’em. “

13. Well I am a female with a very tight vagina and I prefer 4 inches but I do like at least two fingers thick so I prefer a small penis it makes me orgasm fast and good now I have had huge penises as well but my preference is what I like small.

    1. Great to hear. I have a very small penis .3 inches. I have been laughed at many times. It’s great to hear some ladies out there don’t judge a man by the size of a guys penis

14. I am on of those 4-6 guys. but it is very thick. get compliments all the time about how thick it is. so i am not one bit worry about my size. i do get complaints that after a while the females vagina is a lot wider than before.

15. I lost my virginity to a girl who would tell me I didn’t measure up to her precvious baby arm boy friend and later spent 3 years in a committed relationship with a young 19 year old who let me know just how inadequate my 5.5 inches were.

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